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24/10/2025

THE FIVE WORST PIECES OF ADVICE FOR NEWBIE SALSA DANCERS
Back in the days when I first started dancing, I remember people saying some of this stuff to me, and thinking there was something wrong with me when I couldn't apply the advice.

Of course all advice is well-intentioned and comes from a good place...the trick is knowing when it serves you and when a different approach may be required.

So here's my spin on 5 pieces of classic Salsa advice and why they may not be working for you:

1️⃣ Classic advice: "Don’t think - just feel."

Actually, thinking is the first step TOWARDS feeling.

In the beginning, your body doesn’t yet know how to “feel” the music, or the connection. It’s learning a language. You need to build body awareness which comes from making the movements consciously.

The goal isn’t to “switch off your brain”, but to cognitively train the neural pathways which will eventually allow you to access that unconscious flow state easily - once you have banked high quality movement patterns and cognitively understand what you’re working towards.

So forget turning off the brain for now and be fully present to the experience - mind, body AND emotions.

2️⃣ Classic advice: "Just relax."

Relaxation can’t be forced.

Because trying to feel anything on demand rarely works.

Telling someone to “relax” when they’re tense often creates *more* tension - because it draws attention to them and they then feel under pressure to MAKE themselves relax.

Tension exists when your brain has put your body on high alert.

The key is to create a feeling of safety for your brain, and this comes from learning to manage our own physiology - through breathing and awareness.

Only then will your body start to feel more relaxed.

3️⃣ Classic advice: "Practice your steps - the rest will come."

Steps are just the container - the real dance is in the connection and creativity.

The ability to work with the music in real time - beyond 123 567.

Speaking from personal experience, that stuff - “the rest” - rarely develops organically on its own. It has to be actively and intentionally pursued.

But I don’t believe it’s something that should be reserved for more seasoned dancers and special workshops either.

If you only practice steps and patterns, you’ll get good at memorizing and regurgitating those.

"The rest" comes when you learn how to apply your own expression to those steps by experimenting with them and developing your relationship with the music.

4️⃣ Classic advice: "Focus on your partner - it’s all about connection."

Connection starts with you.

If you’re disconnected from your own body, you’ll struggle to truly connect with anyone else.

Good connection isn’t about focusing on your partner instead of yourself.

It’s about being so grounded in your own identity, movement skills and relationship with the music that they can not only feel - but trust you.

5️⃣ Classic advice: "Just have fun!"

When beginners are nervous, “just have fun” can feel like pressure - yet another thing they have to master and get right.

And as much as teachers and more experienced dancers try and deny it, Salsa is the MOST fun when you can do it…when you have enough baseline competence and confidence to not be second-guessing yourself with every step.

You can’t force fun…and it will only happen when your brain and body are open to experiencing it.

So instead of feeling bad for not having fun, check in with what you ARE feeling and realise it’s not only normal - but perfectly ok.

If this post resonated I have a private Facebook group where we have more in-depth conversations off the main Facebook feed.

You’ll probably enjoy it if you’re deep thinking, growth minded, and enjoy Salsa as a self-development tool, not just for fun and leisure.

I'll pop the link below 👇👇👇

30/09/2025

I’ve got something REALLY exciting in the pipeline!

I’m making the final tweaks to something that will help four discerning, driven couples revitalise their relationship so they can rediscover their chemistry and feel that missing spark come alive again.

It’s Salsa…yes…but it’s MUCH MUCH more than that.

It’s unique, it’s elevated, and it’s definitely not for everyone.

But for the right couples?

Life-changing.

That’s all I’m saying for now…

More tomorrow!

30/09/2025

IF YOU’RE ONLY HERE TO LEARN STEPS, YOU’RE IN THE WRONG STUDIO...

They walked in a little awkwardly.

Not unusual for a couple’s first visit, but probably unusual for them.

Successful. Polished. Used to being in charge.

But visibly nervous.

She joked about being a control freak.

He pretended to laugh, but couldn’t quite hide the fear in his face.

Because couples don’t really come to me for Salsa. They come for something they can’t quite name yet.

So we don’t start with steps.

We start with breath.

With presence.

With grounding.

With taking ownership of their own individual movement before partnering up.

And when we do get to working on establishing that baseline connection, at first it looks a little clunky.

He overthinks.

She tries to take over.

He’s momentarily frustrated.

I intervene and show him how to use his body and frame to lead rather than pulling and dragging her with his arms.

I show her how to maintain connection and reciprocate what’s given.

To stay with him - and not override or jump the gun.

But then something shifts. Their breathing syncs. Their eyes light up and it suddenly looks harmonious.

And then she relaxes and finally lets him lead…maybe for the first time in years.

Suddenly it’s not about dance anymore.

It’s about restoring the natural dynamic between them.

The spark that brought them together in the first place.

By the end of our time together they don’t want it to end.

Not because they’ve learned a bunch of moves.

But because they are moving in sync.

They’ve found synergy.

Salsa is the vehicle.

But the real goal is the feeling.

05/09/2025

WHY OVERTHINKING IS ACTUALLY A SALSA SUPERPOWER - And how to use it to your advantage.

Overthinking gets a bad rap in most Salsa classes.

You get told to turn your brain off,

Less thinking, more dancing,

Feel the music, get out of your head.

And whilst these instructions aren’t without merit, they can leave the more anxious and analytical among us feeling left out in the cold with a ton of nagging, unanswered questions.

Being a deep thinker myself, I’ve often struggled when my brain wasn’t given explicit enough instructions, context or detailed breakdowns of the task in hand.

It can seriously ramp up doubt, anxiety and insecurity.

But what I’ve realised over my years of dancing and teaching is that deep/overthinkers have qualities which give them a significant advantage during the learning process.

And given the right environment, they can become incredible dance partners.

So here are the four main assets and advantages that overthinkers enjoy, which sets them up for Salsa success:

1. Attention to Detail
Overthinkers notice tiny details that everyone else misses. They learn to make the micro-adjustments in their technique which takes the feel of their connection from average to incredible.

2. Strong Mental Frameworks
Overthinkers are AWESOME when it comes to creating mental maps of the dance.

When everyone else is idly chatting, they are taking notes, creating mindmaps, and figuring out how the dance works spatially and mechanically.

This makes it much easier for them to understand and navigate complex turn patterns, which eventually translates into high levels of improvisational skill and confidence.

3. Heightened Awareness
Because they are tuned into the more subtle cues, they develop into highly responsive, empathetic partners with fantastic connection skills.

They also notice the patterns and structure within the music

4. Questioning and Curious
Overthinkers often ask the most and the best questions (but only if they feel comfortable in their environment and supported by their teacher).

Because they are so curious and often want to make sure their understanding is correct, they will often ask the “doh” questions that everyone else is thinking but not brave enough to ask.

The main challenge for anyone with deep or overthinking tendencies is overriding perfectionism, fear of judgement, and learning how to transition out of their logical brain into flow state at will.

And this is why I developed all the mental frameworks I use with my clients - it’s what helped me most when I was learning.

Because ultimately it frees up more mental bandwidth to be present with your partner, connect to the music creatively and have fun.

So if you are prone to overthinking, STOP beating yourself up about it - learn how you can USE those traits to accelerate your Salsa progress.

If you want to find out HOW, I'm opening up a very limited number of slots for beginner/improver social dancers throughout September and October. DM to find out more.

01/09/2025

THE BIGGEST AND MOST IMPORTANT MISCONCEPTION ABOUT SALSA FUNDAMENTALS

You can tell the level of a dancer by how they execute the simplest, most basic steps.

Because that’s where the most time and space exist for body movement, musicality and self-expression.

And it’s also where the most consistent, stable connection and partner presence can be experienced.

Watch a handful of pro dancers and you’ll see there are gazillions of different versions and variations of the basic steps and turns.

Some of these rely on the individual song and the individual dancer’s style to make sense in a specific, unique moment.

Others are a more standardised part of social dance vocabulary.

Often they are not taught…just picked up consciously and unconsciously through watching other dancers.

But not automatically by everyone.

And not always correctly.

Many social dancers hear that they need to revisit the fundamentals in order to break a plateau or reach that holy grail of the “next level”.

But they often translate it as “going back to beginner classes”, at the same time thinking to themselves “been there done that”.

The prospect of going forwards and backwards and side to side for an hour does not appeal as a productive use of their time.

And if truth be told, quite probably it isn’t and here’s why:

Beginner classes are beginner classes because they are informationally pared down.

They purposely LACK the nuance and technical depth needed to take improvers and intermediates to the next level because beginner dancers by definition do not have the mental bandwidth or motor skills to be able to handle all the extra details and finer tuning that more experienced dancers can.

Whilst it’s true that if you embed the fundamentals correctly in the beginning, you never need to relearn them,

I ALSO believe that if those fundamentals aren’t being developed and refined at each stage of a dancers journey, what happens is that the additional challenge of more complex turn patterns without the more refined weight transfer, footwork, energy management, connection and body movement, then you end up with a clunky, chaotic mess of compensations.

Snatchy, panicky, rough leading.

Followers who launch themselves into turns before they’ve actually been led.

And a whole lot more undesirable outcomes.

This is because people don’t have the speed, control, flow and precision already embedded within their basic movement skills to be able to cope with more things to think about and do within each bar of music.

So no…developing your fundamentals is NOT about going back to beginner classes.

(It's not even about practicing your cross body leads and basic turns over and over - you'll just groove what you're already doing even deeper.)

It’s learning what good technique looks like for the level you’re at, refining it to make it more precise and energetically efficient, and learning how to put more of you and the music into the recipe for each step and move.

27/08/2025

*Why many couples never find the connection they are seeking in Salsa dancing*

You signed up for chemistry but it’s only feeling clunky…

If you started Salsa dance lessons as a date night activity, or to bring you closer together as a couple, months down the line you may be wondering where that deep level, almost telepathic connection is…and why you’re struggling to find it in your own dancing.

You know EXACTLY what it looks like…you’ve seen it between the really good dancers, the teachers, on TV, and even between strangers who have never danced together before.

And now you’re frustrated because you know your dancing doesn’t look like that.

You’re feeling clunkiness and not chemistry.

So if this is you - and it’s certainly been true for many of the couples I work with - here are the main reasons:

**1. Connection is not just doing - it’s feeling.**

Connection isn’t just physical. It’s an emotional and energetic experience too.

The QUALITY of the connection matters. It requires sensitivity.

The tactile cues in Salsa are highly nuanced and subtle - imperceptible to anyone looking on, yet clear as day to the follower when done well.

When done badly they’re confusing, ambiguous or just downright distracting.

**2. You’re making it all about mechanics and memorisation**

Steps, counts, technique are all important, but if that’s the ONLY focus, the dance becomes a game of automation and muscle memory, not embodiment and expression.

When you are only focused on the performative and aesthetic outcome, there’s no bandwidth left for intimacy.

That said, connection is a technique in and of itself - one that is often not well explained or understood.

**3. You’re diluting your couple energy**

The etiquette at clubs, classes and socials is dancing with lots of partners. This is great for versatility and adaptative skills, if social dancing is your goal.

But couples whose primary motivation is to recharge their own dynamic may end up frustrated through having to split their focus and share their partner with others.

**4. You’re playing out your existing relationship dynamics**

All those unmet expectations and miscommunications don’t magically evaporate when the music starts.

The pressure of the dance lesson environment often amplifies them, because dance mirrors life.

Connection is built on trust, and if you don’t trust your partner at a fundamental level, you won’t trust them to lead or follow in a dance.

**5. You haven’t created the right conditions for chemistry to exist**

Intimacy is an exchange of energy.

It’s about invitation and reciprocation. It’s created through awareness, trust, and the willingness to be vulnerable.

It’s built on technique - but it lives in the senses.

And you can’t be sensual if you’re not tuning into those here and now sensations within your own body.

**6. You’ve not figured out how to be fully present**

True dance connection is about being fully in the here and now - attuned to the music, your partner, and yourself.

Most novice dancers (and more than a few experienced ones) are solely future-focused (thinking about what’s next) or self-focused (how they look). That robs them of the *now*, where true connection lives.

The MUSIC is your anchor to the present moment and those feelings of chemistry that you are seeking with your partner.

So if you want deeper connection within your relationship and dance partnership, and you want to finally understand how to create chemistry without the chaos and clunkiness, get in touch.

24/08/2025

You put everything into planning the perfect wedding but left the most important thing to chance.

Spent a fortune on creating an incredible day that would be remembered by everyone present for many years after the fact.

Spent two years planning it...maybe more.

Secured the stunning venue to provide the perfect backdrop.

The photographer and videographer to capture the special moments.

Spent hours choosing your dress, colour theme and floral design.

Time, effort and energy researching and meeting planners, suppliers and caterers.

Agonised over the guest list and seating.

Music and entertainers.

Maybe even a dance instructor to choreograph and teach you that showstopping first dance.

All to make sure that one day is the most perfect and memorable day of your lives.

But what then?

Like the song says, money can’t buy love.

And the amount of money that you spend on a wedding doesn’t improve the chances that it will last.

The amount of hours you put into planning it have zero correlation to the number of years it will survive.

And most couples just leave it to chance.

They don’t give it a second thought.

Hope for the best.

And then they are surprised when they drift apart.

When work takes over and s*x disappears off the menu.

But how much have you invested in making sure your relationship stays the course?

What if you put time, effort and energy into something that’s guaranteed to bring you closer as a couple AFTER the wedding day?

To create a relationship dynamic that’s built to last,

To restore energy and intimacy in a partnership that’s gone stale.

People say my Salsa programmes are expensive.

But when you compare them to the financial, emotional and energetic effort that went into that one special day, and the subsequent cost of a break up because you hadn’t invested anything into your actual relationship,

I’m not just saving you money.

I’m saving your emotional health and wellbeing.

Your image and reputation.

I’m saving your time and energy from being wasted because you haven’t found time and energy for each other.

I’m saving everything invested into your wedding day from going down the toilet.

Maybe I’m even saving you the cost of divorce lawyers.

I have zero interest in being a wedding dance choreographer.

Because I design the dance programme that will help you stay together AFTER the fact- so 20, 30, 50 years on you’re STILL looking back on those wedding day memories as good ones.

So you don’t end up selling the dress and deleting all the photos,

Putting it all down to “experience” and then being in therapy for a year to help you process it.

I don’t do “showstopping first dances”, so don’t ask.

But if you’re after a “remember why you got together in the first place” dance experience that will emotionally and energetically reconnect and cement your relationship so it stays the course,

THAT is what I do best.

23/08/2025

EFFORTLESS IS A LIE…AND YOU FELL FOR IT.

You probably know that person who decided to learn to dance one day and took to it like the proverbial duck to water.

Or that couple who appear to have the perfect relationship and never fight or get upset with each other.

But one of the most dangerous beliefs in dance - and relationships - is that if it’s “meant to be” it all happens naturally and effortlessly.

That someone is a natural dancer.

That two people just naturally “click”

That it all “just happens” and falls into place with minimal effort.

By accident,

Without really trying.

Now it’s true that in dance the aim is to do hard things and make it look as effortless as possible.

But the effort is still there…was ALWAYS there.

It’s just well hidden

Those who get good at dance quickly have just figured out how to use their energy efficiently.

To channel it and control it.

To invest it where it’s most effective.

To hide the effort and make it look easy.

And those perfect couples who seem to never fight or fall out still have hard conversations.

They’ve just learned to do it in a way that doesn’t turn their relationship dynamic sour, or create lingering bad vibes.

They can move through different emotions and not get stuck there.

The energy flows, but they control it.

People think that energy in the context of people and relationship is an intangible, abstract idea - that it’s a bit woo, or “out there”.

But just as you can see and feel the effects of energy in dance in the form of speed, power, rotation and sweat,

You can see and feel it between people too:

The desire

The chemistry

The care

The attention and investment.

So don’t be fooled

There’s no such thing as effortless.

In dance OR relationships,

Stop chasing it.

It’s what you do with your energy that matters.

FIND Each Other (The Prelude) is 90 minutes that could change the course of your relationship by changing the energy between you.

DM for more info.

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