30/08/2022
I am often guilty of expecting too much of myself. I have allowed myself to believe that working towards success means I should be perpetually engaged in whatever activity it is I'm seeking to progress in. Not only has this been occasionally detrimental, hindering my ability to enjoy the process, but also psychologically taxing.
Truth be told, immoderate self-expectation can be crippling. Not only does it threaten our ability to attain success in the first place, but also affects our ability to love and appreciate our selected craft. How can we love something we are constantly stressed out over? Weighed down by notions of some false sense of impending obsolescence if we aren't regularly engaged in advancing our position?
No doubt, if we want success, we have to put in the work. We have to make a determined effort to attain it. That means working through exhaustion, battling through stress, and striking an impossible work-life balance that includes creativity. But it doesn't mean driving ourselves crazy with unrealistic expectations.
Work hard. But work wisely. Don't burn yourself out trying to be better. Enjoy the process. This is something I've had to really ingrain in myself, as, for years, I've only focused on the end goal, ultimately missing out on the sweetness derived from the fruits of my labour.
I'm finally trying to appreciate the process and enjoy whatever blessings Allah (God) gives me. You should too.
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