31/07/2026
What I said to dancers this week.
A conversation that keeps repeating itself.
Not because dancers don’t know enough about nutrition, but because humans are often trying to solve psychological problems with nutrition advice.
The dance world still has an uncomfortable contradiction: It frequently rewards a childlike physique while expecting the judgement, emotional regulation and resilience of an adult woman (to a certain degree - submission and obedience are a whole other topic). Those two expectations don’t coexist. And so, when life feels overwhelming, food often becomes the thing that looks like the problem. In reality, it may simply be the one strategy someone found to cope with uncertainty, fear, perfectionism, or a world that never encouraged genuine autonomy.
This is why meal plans in isolation so often fail. They promise everything and deliver not even a fraction of those promises. Recovery isn’t just about eating or eating more. It’s about developing the skills that make eating feel safe in the first place: tolerating uncertainty, setting boundaries, making independent decisions, regulating emotions, and discovering that your worth isn’t earned through control.
If we want healthier dancers, we have to stop treating food as though it exists in isolation.
It’s rarely just about food.