10/06/2026
"She wrecked my classic car and left. It's just metal, get over it. I replied, you're right, it is.
She stopped laughing when she saw what I sold to pay for the repairs. I, 32, male, have been restoring cars since I was 16. It's not just a hobby, it's my meditation, my art, my connection to my late grandfather who taught me everything I know about engines.
My pride and joy was a 1970 Plymouth Cuda I'd spent 6 years restoring. Every bolt, every panel, every inch of that car had been touched by my hands. Found it as a rust bucket for $3,500 and put another $25,000 and countless hours into it.
Not to flip it, to keep it. This car was my baby. Enter Veronica, my girlfriend of 8 months.
She never understood the car thing, called it playing with toys, and made jokes about me loving the car more than her. I'd laugh it off, but it bothered me how dismissive she was of something that meant so much to me. The incident happened on a Thursday evening.
I was working late, and she texted asking to borrow my daily driver. Her BMW was in the shop for some minor issue. I told her, sure, keys were on the hook.
What I didn't know was that she decided my Honda was too boring for her night out with friends. I got home around 10:00 p.m. to find my garage door open and my Cuda gone. My heart dropped.
I called her immediately. Hey, babe, she answered, music blaring in the background. Where's my car?
Oh, I took the pretty one. The Honda is so lame. Veronica, that's not a daily driver.
It's not insured for other drivers. Where are you? Relax, I'm a great driver.
We're just at Tiffany's place. I'm coming to get it. Don't move.
She laughed. God, you're so dramatic. It's just a car.
20 minutes later I got another call, not from her, from the police. She'd wrapped my Cuda around a lamp post. When I arrived at the scene, she was standing there with her friends, laughing.
Actually laughing. The front end of my car was destroyed. Six years of work crumpled like paper.“Babe.”
She called out when she saw me.“Look, I'm so sorry, but it's kind of funny, right? I confused the brake and the gas.” I couldn't speak, just stared at the wreckage.“Oh my god, are you crying?”
She giggled.“It's just metal. Get over it. Insurance will fix it.““You're not on my insurance, and this is a classic.
Do you have any idea what you've done?” She rolled her eyes.“I'll pay for it, whatever. Stop being such a baby.”
The police officer approached. No drugs or alcohol, just negligence. She'd been showing off, took a turn too fast, lost control.
Her friends corroborated. They'd been recording her driving the vintage car for Instagram when she crashed. I had the car towed to my buddy Jerome's shop.
The damage assessment came back the next day. $18,000 minimum, possibly more depending on finding original parts. The frame was bent, front end destroyed, engine damaged.“Your girlfriend going to cover this?”
Jerome asked.“She says she will.” He gave me a look. We both knew better.
I was right. When I showed Veronica the estimate, her tune changed immediately.“$18,000? That's insane.
The whole car isn't worth that.““Actually, restored K***s go for 60-80K. Mine would have been worth more if you hadn't destroyed it.““Well, I don't have that kind of money. Can't you just fix it yourself like you did before?
With what money for parts? And the frame damage needs professional work.” She shrugged.“Not my problem.
Sue me if you want. My dad's a lawyer.““Your dad's a divorce attorney.““Still a lawyer. Look, I said I was sorry.
Accidents happen. You need to get over this obsession with that stupid car.” That's when I smiled.“You're right.
It is just metal.” She looked surprised at my sudden agreement. See, I knew you'd be reasonable.
Absolutely. In fact, I've already figured out how to pay for the repairs. Oh, good.
Insurance? No, by selling your stuff. She laughed.
What? Well, you live in my house rent-free. You've been driving my cars for months without contributing to insurance or gas.
You have quite a collection of designer items that you keep here. I figure that should cover most of the damages. You can't sell my things.
Why not? They're just things, leather and fabric. Get over it.
Update one. Veronica stormed out that night, but she left all her stuff. See, she'd been practically living with me for the past 4 months, though she maintained her own apartment.
Her reasoning was that my place was nicer and more convenient to her work. Over the next day, I cataloged everything she'd left behind. Six designer handbags, Louis Vuitton, Chanel, Gucci, 12 pairs of designer shoes, Louboutins, Jimmy Choos, designer clothing, more than I could count.
Jewelry she kept in my safe, gifts from exes, apparently.
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