Dale Rowse

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Dale Rowse Author, Public Speaker, Visionary Leader in Arts, Culture & Sustainable Development
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What most refer to as romantic "love" is rooted in lack. It's about "finding your other half" to achieve wholeness. Howe...
10/19/2026

What most refer to as romantic "love" is rooted in lack. It's about "finding your other half" to achieve wholeness. However, in higher thinking, we realize that we are complete on our own, and being near anyone who seeks to become whole by using pieces of you can become intolerable. Do not want. Do not take. Do not need anything other than to focus and complete your soul work. Are you doing the inner work? Are you aware you can complete yourself? In session with clients, my objective is always the same: to teach you how to stand in your own holiness (wholeness). To be so full of self-granted goodness that just existing in this time and space brings tears of gratitude and joy. Are you that powerful? Do you need support? Let’s embark on this journey together and tap into the true essence of your being.

I've always known who I am. It's just that I was born into a world where my bigness was misunderstood or seen as threate...
10/18/2026

I've always known who I am. It's just that I was born into a world where my bigness was misunderstood or seen as threatening. It's why my understanding of love is so messed up. Because historically, the people telling me they love me are also telling me to sit down, behave, and have realistic expectations. No. I wasn't born for that. As a child, while others dreamed of being veterinarians or teachers, I wanted to be a C**t Model. However, I felt I couldn't share that dream because it does not meet the puritanical standard of what "good people" do. Surrounded by judgment and misery, I couldn’t find what I was seeking, so I had to look elsewhere. A path opened before me. The path of the seeker. I started reading books and questioning... And something began to happen. It all started to slip. Everything I had fought for began to fall away because I had to lose all others to find myself. This loneliness and separation are necessary for transformation, requiring you to abandon all that defines you. Religions, created by man for control, are not real. While God exists, the divisions created by religion are optional. At 56, I finally understand myself and have found my tribe in a school for s*x educators. Surrounded by diverse individuals. Enlightened s*x workers, specific healers, and many trans people; I'm part of a world that has always resonated with me. I'm not learning this to touch people's junk. Yes, that's a function of the work, but until you understand trauma and complex PTSD, you cannot understand the cure. I go where the shame is. I go there and bring you with me, because I know the road to hell, and that's right where we head first. Many people expect a session with me to be titillating or fun, and it might be. However, you’ll soon realize this isn’t about me. It's about you, and this intense focus can often cause people to shrink, as they’ve never truly been guided to meet themselves in such a deep and profound way. The body is a whole entity. Not bits and pieces. So at some point healing must involve the entire you, not just socially acceptable bits. Abandon everything you've been told. Abandon everything you hold as true. Abandon society and its governance. People are asleep and insane, and it's okay to opt out of the crazy, because there's no good way to participate in crazy. Step aside. Let the crazy train go by. Then continue your quest in your becoming. If you need help understanding your own evolution... Reach out. DMs are open if you need help. Don't stay stuck.
Now booking through the end of the year.

One thing people often fail to realize is that many q***r people know the Bible better than the very people throwing Bib...
10/17/2026

One thing people often fail to realize is that many q***r people know the Bible better than the very people throwing Bible verses at us. And that’s not always by choice. Many of us grew up being forced to learn scripture, not just to understand our faith, but to defend our very existence. If a book says it's a sin for women to speak or teach, that you should unalive all the 🏳️‍🌈, and in**st is cool, feels right to you, I have questions. And if you've never actually read the bible or know anything about your own religion, I'll be happy to bring you up to speed in a private conversation. Just drop me a line.

I recently had a call with someone I truly admire. Someone whose mindset I aspire to model. During our conversation, she...
10/17/2026

I recently had a call with someone I truly admire. Someone whose mindset I aspire to model. During our conversation, she posed a thought-provoking question: Is my fledgling company a Brand or a Service? It took me a moment to reflect, but ultimately, I realized it’s neither. Sa'rellan is a school of thought; a way of being that embraces you fully. Here, you are met, held, witnessed, and uplifted in your journey of becoming. In a shallow world filled with ego and labels, I invite you to explore a space where your authentic self can thrive. This isn’t just about a brand; it’s about cultivating a community and nurturing a deeper connection to who you truly are. Join me on this transformative journey!

'rellan

Courage: Who do you think you are?Did you choose that identity, or is it an echo of programming installed by parents and...
10/16/2026

Courage: Who do you think you are?
Did you choose that identity, or is it an echo of programming installed by parents and society? If you're following the beliefs handed to you, it’s likely not your own truth. It’s a daunting task to confront these questions. It demands that you strip away layers of expectation, conditioning, and long-held beliefs. This process isn’t for the faint of heart; it requires Courage—with a capital C. This is why Courage is the second founding principle of Sa'rellan, my new healing practice. The first is Authenticity—the most powerful energy in the universe. True courage means stepping into your authentic self, questioning the narratives that shape you, and embracing the discomfort that comes with transformation. It’s the commitment to rediscover who you really are beneath it all. So, I ask you: Are you ready to find the courage to uncover your true self? Because I promise you, you're not who you think you are.
Message me if you're ready to shift.

New business cards are in. First client in my new space tomorrow.
10/15/2026

New business cards are in. First client in my new space tomorrow.

Authenticity: The Bedrock of Sa’rellanThe most powerful energy in the universe isn't love, but authenticity. Most people...
10/15/2026

Authenticity: The Bedrock of Sa’rellan
The most powerful energy in the universe isn't love, but authenticity. Most people get this wrong. We often speak of love as the greatest force there is. No. Authenticity comes first. Because how can love truly reach you if you're hiding who you are? How can you feel loved if the person meeting you is responding to a mask, an expectation, or an identity you've had to wear to survive? Authenticity is what allows love to meet you. It is the courage to arrive as you are. Not as you think you should be. Not as someone else needs you to be. Not as the polished, healed, spiritually enlightened version of yourself you think the world wants to see. Just you.
Authenticity is the bedrock of my work and the first founding principle of Sa’rellan. It shapes how I meet people: without expectations, without judgment, and without requiring them to have the right answers. You don't have to perform for me. You don't have to explain everything. You don't have to pretend you're okay when you're not. Sometimes the most profound thing we can offer another human being is the space to stop holding everything together. To be seen. To be heard. To be held, and welcomed. To experience connection without having to earn it. In a world that often asks us to edit ourselves for acceptance, I want to create a space where you can arrive exactly where you are. I didn't come to teach you how to be someone else. I came to meet you where you are. I came to love you. And I believe love, when it meets you authentically, can teach you things no lecture or words ever could. This is why I take the practical side of my business seriously, too. I'm building the structure behind Sa’rellan so that when I open my doors, I can welcome people responsibly, give each person the attention they deserve, and offer a clear, grounded path into working with me. The interest in my work is already encouraging, and I want the foundations in place before I invite more people in. Sa’rellan is rooted in six founding principles, but everything begins here: Authenticity.
Come as you are. Start where you are. You don't need to become someone else to begin.
✨ If this speaks to you, reach out. Now accepting both in-person appointments on Vancouver Island and online via Zoom.

This month, I’m introducing Sa’rellan — a spiritual identity and a body of work rooted in six founding principles: Authe...
10/14/2026

This month, I’m introducing Sa’rellan — a spiritual identity and a body of work rooted in six founding principles: Authenticity, Courage, Trust, Discernment, Reverence, and Holiness. Together, they offer a way to explore what it means to live in alignment with our deepest truth, face ourselves honestly, and reclaim the personal power we may have handed over to others.
•Authenticity is the willingness to live truthfully, without performing or abandoning ourselves to gain acceptance.
•Courage invites us to look inward, face our shadows, question inherited beliefs, and meet vulnerability as part of transformation.
•Trust asks us to loosen our grip on certainty and allow ourselves to move into the unknown, believing we can meet what unfolds.
•Discernment becomes our inner compass, helping us recognize the difference between our own knowing and the conditioning, manipulation, and half-truths we may have mistaken for truth.
•Reverence reminds us to meet this journey with gratitude and humility, honoring the wisdom of those who came before us while remaining responsible for our own path.
•And Holiness? For me, it is the return to wholeness, not perfection, sainthood, or permission granted by an outside authority, but the willingness to stand in our own completeness, integrate what we have lived, and stop defining ourselves by our wounds. It is a return to freedom, presence, and joy. It is what I call the Rapture: not an escape from life, but a return to joy within it.
These principles aren’t rules to follow or rungs on a ladder toward some idealized version of ourselves. They are invitations to explore, question, and discover what becomes possible when we stop looking outside ourselves for every answer.
Sa’rellan brings together my spiritual inquiry, lived experience, writing, and energy work. It is a space to explore authenticity, personal power, and conscious becoming, not by telling anyone what to believe, but by making room for deeper questions and a more honest relationship with who we are. I’m not here to tell you who to be. I’m interested in what becomes possible when you learn to trust your own capacity to see, question, choose, and become. Welcome to Sa’rellan. The journey inward. The return to wholeness. I’d love to know: what does living authentically mean to you, and which of these ideas speaks to where you are in your own journey?

I HAVE A DREAM. AND IT HAS A NAME: FOREIGN TO ME. For years, this story has lived inside me. Born from pain, survival, a...
10/14/2026

I HAVE A DREAM. AND IT HAS A NAME: FOREIGN TO ME.
For years, this story has lived inside me. Born from pain, survival, and the search for meaning, it began as a book. Now, I’m working to bring it to the big screen. Not just entertainment. Conscious cinema. A raw, funny, mysterious, deeply human film that challenges what we believe about ourselves and reminds us of the wholeness we may have been taught to doubt. I’m developing the cinematic vision and working toward finalizing the screenplay. The dream is becoming tangible, and I’m ready to take the next step. I believe film can do more than tell stories. It can change the way we see ourselves, each other, and the world we share. Now I’m looking for the right people to help make this film happen. Are you a film producer, studio executive, investor, distributor, or buyer looking for a story with purpose and cinematic potential? Do you have connections to people who acquire or finance films? I’d love to hear from you.
Please reach out directly, share this post with the right contacts, or help connect Foreign To Me with the people who can bring it to the screen. This is more than a dream of making a movie. It’s a dream of making a difference.
Let’s make conscious cinema.

Never follow a "spiritual teacher." Higher conscious beings are not here for your growth; they’re on their own journey f...
10/13/2026

Never follow a "spiritual teacher." Higher conscious beings are not here for your growth; they’re on their own journey for one. Any seeker or "teacher" who actively seeks followers is asleep, unaware that any attempt to awaken others will lead to violence. Just look at J.C. Look how that worked out. He failed to understand this, and yet it is an entry-level concept. Great being... ya, whatever... People awaken when they consciously choose to, and it’s not our place to decide when that should happen for others. True support comes only when someone asks for it. That’s the mark of a genuine seeker—not a performance for validation. Those who arrive seeking answers often come from a place of darkness and struggle, ready to forge their own path. If they haven’t committed to their own growth, they might be looking for a crutch or a soft landing, but that simply doesn’t exist in this journey. There is only one path, one that calls for resilience, self-discovery, and unwavering belief in oneself. Trust the journey and embrace the solitary struggle. Remember: no one can walk it for you. That said, if you feel called to work with me, I offer my services for $150 an hour. No discounts. Because I'm not here for you. I'm here for me, which includes working with advanced seekers and those ready to step into their power. Are you prepared to embark on this transformative path? Have you done the entry-level work? The decision is yours, just as it was mine. Wishing you all the best on your journey. I’m here if you need me, but I also know that I’m good and need no one or anything. I am complete on my own.
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