09/18/2024
I haven't posted on social media in about 2 1/2 years. The loss of my father sent me into a downward spiral of crippling depression. First time I've ever experienced anything like that. I didn't think something like that could ever get a hold of me. But it did. It took me almost 2 years to recover and I still feel like I'm in a healing stage.
Since my fathers passing I started religiously studying backgammon to take my mind out of the dark state it was in. My father and I played throughout my life and we played together in his final months when he couldn't get out of bed anymore. Some of his final words to me were reminding me what a wonderful life we've both had and that I can do ANYTHING I put my mind to. We had just finished playing a game of backgammon and he said "Take backgammon for example, I know that if you really put your mind to it, you could be World Champion some day!"
After his passing, I made it my mission to study as hard as possible. Every day. Sometimes 8 to 10 hours a day. It was at times, the only thing helping to keep me alive.
Last month, in Monte Carlo, Monaco I attended the Backgammon World Championship. Most of the greatest players in the world were there. I am a Division II player and play in the Advanced/Intermediate division. I've won a total of 8 trophies in national tournaments over the past two years, but Monte Carlo and the World Championship is a whole other level. There were 72 players in my division from all over the world. I made it all the way to the CHAMPIONSHIP FINAL! The match was streamed live with commentators. I rented a tux for the occasion. The 15 point match lasted over 2 hours. You can view the last few minutes of the match cued up below. It was a very exciting ending to say the least.
After the match, I did a post-match interview, which is also shown. My fathers final words of encouragement are now complete. World Champion. Wow. It still hasn't fully sunk in. I know my dad is looking down proudly.
For anyone out there currently suffering from depression or loss of a loved one, I hope my experience can bring you hope or encouragement. Message me if you'd like to talk.
A special thank you to all of the incredible, supportive and amazing people I have met throughout the backgammon community over the past 2 years. You gave me help, support and friendship when I needed it the most. I'm forever grateful. Each and every one of you share in this. ❤
Love & Gratitude.
- Tommy
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