25/04/2024
THINGS NO ONE EVER TOLD YOU BEFORE MARRIAGE:
Marriage is the only institution in life where you are awarded a certificate before you enroll in it.
LOVE IS BLIND BUT MARRIAGE WILL OPEN YOUR BLINDNESS
> At some point in marriage, love may fade, you will only need commitment and hope to survive. Especially when your partner changes from the person you knew initially.
> As a woman, enjoy your single life now because when you marry, you will let go of certain lifestyle and liberty because of kids and family responsibilities especially if you marry a man that's not supportive.
> As a man, when you marry , you must let go of certain lifestyle for your family reputation, protection and integrity.
> Attraction Wanes. This is one of the things nobody tells you about marriage. Even if you marry the most beautiful woman or a handsome man, one fine day, the attraction is sure to wane.You may feel that your partner is no longer attractive or your partner may feel the same about you. But still, the marriage can survive when you fall inlove with your partner's soul and content not just the body.
> Your in-laws are not your friends. Relate with them with caution. Your mother-in-law is not your mother so don't expect them to take sides with you when there are issues. Blood is thicker than water 😀. Maintain a healthy relationship but avoid see finish.
> You can stay many months without séx because of responsibilities. And this doesn't mean that your partner is getting s*x somewhere else. If there is no current, machine can never pump water😜
> Marriage is work, you work to make it work.
> You need to forgive because you will always be offended.
> Childbirth can change your physical look or cause damage to your body. A successful child delivery is always a miracle.
> If you marry someone who feels he or she is too good for you, you will suffer. The person will always make you feel less, like you're privileged to marry him/her
> Sometimes you will hide to eat because of the kids. Every food is not meant for the kids so stop feeling guilty when you are caught in this situation.
> Sometimes even when you're not in the mood, you need to succumb and bow to your partner'