23/06/2026
Part 2...The fire changed many things, but it wasn't the beginning of my story....
There were decades of experiences, lessons, risks, failures, successes, creativity, growth and personal evolution that came before it. And there have been many chapters since.
For a long time, I glossed over much of that. I made myself smaller. I downplayed my experience and achievements because they felt less important than the next thing I was working towards.
What I am learning now is that honouring my journey isn't the same as bragging about it.
It's simply acknowledging the truth.
The truth is that I didn't become who I am in the last three years. I became who I am through every chapter that came before, every challenge I faced, every lesson I learned, every piece of art I created, every class I taught, every business decision I made, and every time life asked me to begin again.
My gorgeous phoenix reminds me of that regularly these days.
She reminds me that every chapter matters. The quiet ones. The messy ones. The successful ones. The painful ones. The chapters that shaped me long before the fire, and the ones that continue to shape me now.
She isn't rising from the ashes anymore.
She has risen.
I share all of this because it is a journey we all have in different ways. No matter what we have been through, there are stories and lessons, chapters and evolutions.
They are little reminders to remember to cherish to honour us within us. On those days and nights you might think it's too much or not enough we have all walked a path.
And every hug with a friend or loved one is one very special reminder that I cherish more and more as time goes on. Perhaps a pause will help you if you need it remember this too ❤️🥰🤗