12/08/2026
If you’ve always identified as the smart one 🧠, the intelligent one, the person who can analyse, reason and talk their way through almost anything, this may apply to you.
Here’s where I’d start.
Find a body based practice that gives you regular practice paying attention to your body. Yoga, martial arts, dance, anything that asks you to experience rather than analyse.
Then give yourself a few external reminders throughout the day to notice what’s happening internally.
Are you hungry?
Thirsty?
Do you need to p*e?
Are you tired?
Tense?
Restless?
At first, you may need the external prompt to lead you back to the internal one ↩️
And if you miss the signal, sometimes your behaviour will give you a clue.
Maybe you suddenly notice you’re snapping at everyone, and when you stop to check in, you realise you’re exhausted or hangry, and haven’t eaten for five hours.
Use the behaviour as a breadcrumb to lure your attention back towards the body…🧀
Over time, the practice is noticing those signals earlier, before you automatically override them.
That’s one place I’d start rebuilding self trust 🫀