Betty Bubbles

10/02/2025

Dear all,

After much reflection and embracing my journey as a single parent, I’ve decided to take a step back from my bubble activities and incursions to focus on being fully present for my daughter during her formative years. This time is precious, and I’m embracing every moment of it.

At the same time, I’m excited to share that I’m pursuing my passion for women’s wellness as a Massage Therapist and Menstruality Mentor at Inner Temple (www.innertemple.com.au). This new chapter allows me to support women on their unique wellness journeys, drawing on my experience and my dedication to holistic health and deeper self-awareness.

I want to extend a heartfelt thank you to everyone who has supported me and booked my services over the past 10 years. Your trust has meant so much to me, especially during this transition into single parenthood. While I’m stepping away from my bubble activities for now, I’m excited for the opportunity to continue supporting others in new ways.

If you have any questions or simply want to connect during this transition, feel free to reach out to me at [email protected].

I’m looking forward to what’s ahead and to continuing to support my wonderful clients in this new chapter.

Warmly,
Betty

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16/03/2024

My latest post on single parenting, the depth of menstrual cycle tracking, and how to 'kinda' find a rythm in the chaos. Sharing my experience of stepping back out on my own, with a toddler in tow.



https://www.innertemple.com.au/post/how-to-find-some-sort-of-balance-as-a-single-mum-with-the-help-of-menstrual-cycle-tracking

28/02/2024

Yesterday I was blowing bubbles with the Stay Sharp program in Perth, a brilliant program for seniors to connect with each other and try new things.

I have always felt that bubbles brought people together, it's a space where one has the opportunity to explore coming back into the moment, and just enjoying what is, right now.

Bubbles, community, belonging, creating connections, sharing stories and enjoying magical moments together.

After the session I received a big bag of origami cranes from Lina, originally from Finland. ❤️

I use these now with my daughter when she feels sad. I get her to stand up, and I tip the whole bag over her head, showering her with colourful birds. We then pick out individual cranes and name them with the people we love.

After that, we both feel so much better 😊❤️

Thank you so much for having me yesterday, I am touched beyond words to have shared such a profound and beautiful morning with all of you!

08/01/2024

This is a picture of Standing Holy, who is listed as Sitting Bull's daughter. It brings to mind the traditional Oceti Ŝakowiŋ style of parenting. The first time that Sitting Bull traveled and observed non-Native people spanking their children, he was shocked.
There was never a need to continually scold a child, belittle them, or strike them. They cuddled their children from birth to about seven because they believed crying wasn't good for children.
Often, if a child did not stop crying, some grandmothers would cry along with them to help them get over whatever had made them sad.
At an early age, they begin to take on the responsibility of their clothing and bedding. Our people traveled with the buffalo and had to be mobile. By the age of 10, most of our children knew how to take care of the materials needed for travel.
Love, teaching, structure, and community raised our children.
Colonization tells us that physical discipline helps shape our children and turn our boys into men. Yet, without ever being spanked, we produced the greatest warriors that ever walked this land.
Our lifeways and ceremonies through the different stages of life were more valuable than anything colonization offered.

29/12/2023

You know when your partner says he has to stop somewhere on the way home from work and the text comes through in the shape of a knife?It's not because you're incapable.

It's because you've been at capacity since 11:00am, and they really do feel like the longest 10 minutes of your life.

You know when someone asks after the kids but you also wish they'd ask how you were doing? You're the one holding it together, the one unpacking bags, thoughts and feelings.
It's not because you're selfish.

It's because the mother needs mothering too.

You know how you don't get the invite sometimes and it's probably because you say "no" a lot. And so you feel a little empty and resentful?
It's not because you're being petty.

It's because you want people to see you through all the unseen, even if you forget to see yourself.

You know how you keep numbers in your head like birth weights and play dates, milestones and appointments, and you find it hard to hand any of it over?
It's not because you're a control freak.

It's because it has always fallen on you, and even though you have a supportive partner, you know you'll somehow always carry that weight.

You know how you flip your head forward in the morning and tie your hair into something that resembles goodness knows what, and someone mentions something about self care?
It's not because you're not trying.

It's because maybe their village looks different to yours.

You know how they say to enjoy every minute, but you're literally giving so much of your energy right now. This is what happens when you become a mother. You give and you give and you give until it feels like there's not a lot left.
It's not because you're ungrateful.

It's because this is the reality some days, this is a season.

We are held when we're small, but sometimes not enough when we feel small.

I know, because same.
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