13/05/2020
Jason – Dubai / Jessica, Julie, Jeanette and Jemma – Kuala Lumpur
“I moved to Dubai for work last October and was commuting back to KL every so often as I didn’t want to interrupt my oldest daughter’s final year of high school there. My wife Jess and my three daughters were going to join me here this year but then COVID happened and all our plans have been disrupted.
We’ve moved around a lot as a family with my work and I do travel a bit too, so Jess and the girls are quite used to that. But it’s hard to not be able to see them indefinitely. Thankfully for technology, we chat multiple times a day and have video calls constantly, which helps. I was hoping to be back for my daughter’s graduation from high school, but it looks like that won’t be possible.
Since the lockdown came into effect in Dubai, I’ve pretty much stayed home in my apartment, apart from the occasional trip to grab groceries and maybe a coffee. I can’t remember the last time I ever cooked, so I’ve enjoyed doing that and keeping a healthier routine. I’m not skipping meals like I used to, and definitely eating healthier now that I’m preparing my own meals. I’m also having the time to exercise… all of this has been important in getting through this time.
With my team at work, I’m mindful of potential mental and emotional effects this can have on them such as the anxiety of job security and being cooped up at home. So we made it a rule to have our videos turned on during team meetings so we can check in on one another. I've run several team activities. e.g. Zoom workouts with my trainer and whole team and we're doing a quiz night whereby their family members can also participate so we build a bond not just amongst colleagues but also with our family members.” – Jason
“I am in KL with our three girls during the lockdown and the initial plan before COVID was to spend some time between Dubai and KL in February and April. With the sudden closure of borders and the world coming to a standstill, we miss being a full family unit for such an extended period of time.
As we approach completion of nearly eight weeks being at home, things are finally starting to ease a little bit in terms of restrictions. In the last many weeks, the children have been purely bound inside the apartment and I am out to the supermarket twice a week. We have established a routine at home: schooling in the morning, homework in the afternoon and then a quick workout together on most days. It has allowed us to bond a little more out of the ordinary, learning to cook and bake new things together. It has been an emotionally challenging time with the bigger girls at school given that it is their final months in KL and they have not been able to spend any of this time with their friends or at school. In all of this, I am most amazed with how resilient and understanding the children have been, especially Jemma at the age of 4. We are thankful for what we have, shelter, food and health. We miss being with Jason and can't wait till the day when borders open up again so we can start preparing for our move to Dubai.” Jess