03/10/2026
A piece from one of my fav writers, Matt Licata the phrase “the body keeps score”
To listen….
See you next week.
There is a great deal of wisdom in the now-familiar phrase that “the body keeps the score.”
Our bodies carry our histories. They remember what overwhelmed us, what frightened us, what brought pleasure, what required protection. Long before the conceptual mind has figured out what is happening, the body may already be responding—with contraction or expansion, trembling or warmth, an impulse to move toward or pull away.
Learning to listen to these communications, to cultivate a kind of somatic sensitivity, has been an important part of my own life and work for many years.
But the body is not an oracle. Because some of the score was written a very long time ago.
A nervous system shaped in an environment where intimacy carried danger may register closeness as threat. Someone who learned that belonging required self-abandonment may feel intense activation while setting a healthy boundary. What feels expansive and alive may be a movement toward something deeply true—or toward something exquisitely familiar.
None of this means the body is wrong. The contraction is real, the fear is real, the trembling is real. But what the body is responding to may not belong entirely to the present moment. And perhaps this is where somatic sensitivity begins to deepen into somatic discernment.
Listening to the body is not the same as obeying it. Rather than immediately asking, What is my body telling me to do?, we might become curious about another question: What is happening in my body as I am here?
We may not know immediately whether the fear is signaling danger or vulnerability, whether the contraction is asking us to leave or marking a threshold that was once unsafe to cross. And perhaps that not-knowing is part of the practice.
The body is not standing outside our history, offering pure instructions about the life we should live. The body is inside the history.
This is exactly why its communications deserve our attention—not as commandments, but as part of an ongoing conversation between past and present, protection and possibility.
The body knows. But the body knows many things.