The Erotics of Quiet

07/02/2026

“Shrine of the Unread”

A red storm of borrowed alphabets.
Not meaning
but memory.
A shrine built from repetition,
until even silence
starts to look like God.

✒️ Nilakshi Helapitiya

(Below painting is done by Charles Zenderoudi (born 1937, Tehran), is an Iranian painter, calligrapher and sculptor, known as a pioneer of Iranian modern art. Zenderoudi does not paint words,he paints the afterlife of words)

05/02/2026

They stand in colour
where the sea keeps leaving
small rooms
for people who have learned
to lose quietly.

Red for what I gave.
Blue for what stayed.
Yellow
for the grace
of still showing up.

The ocean takes.
I remain.

Nilakshi Helapitiya

29/01/2026

The Innocence We Betrayed

They sit together
before choice existed.

Behind them, LOVE burns in neon
a word made loud
for people who no longer trust it.

They do not look at it.
They do not need to.

This is love before thought,
before fear learned its grammar.

Everything that comes after
the promises,
the exits,
the bargaining
is survival
wearing devotion’s name.

Nilakshi Helapitiya

29/01/2026

In Bendigo,
even the benches tell stories.
A King of Hearts rests beneath the trees
worn, weathered, still generous.
A place to pause,
to listen to the quiet shuffle of time,
where streets remember footsteps
and
love is painted bold enough
to outlast seasons.

27/01/2026

27/01/2026

(An earlier note, revisited and reposted, on Malini’s dismissal.)

Malani Fonseka: A Life Beyond Our Projections

As the curtains fell on Malani's life, what followed felt less like a farewell and more like a performance...grief amplified by cameras, with microphones capturing tearful soundbites and sentimental outbursts. A recurring theme echoed: what Malani didn’t receive in life outweighed what she did.
But I can’t help but ask,,why are we reducing a remarkable life to a tragedy narrative? Why is there a race to paint her as emotionally abandoned, romantically betrayed, and perpetually yearning?
What I witnessed was less about honoring Malani and more about spotlighting oneself through her absence. The exaggerated mourning, the dramatic commentary,,some of it bordered on the theatrical. And it made me wonder: are we truly grieving her, or are we performing our own emotional needs in public?
Let’s be honest,no life is free from pain, heartbreak, or disappointment. That’s the human condition. But we forget that within those very chapters were also moments of deep passion, romance, companionship, and strength. Malani wasn’t a victim of love but she was a vibrant, confident woman who lived fully, boldly, and on her own terms. Her relationships were her choices, and through them, she experienced life intensely and unapologetically.
It’s telling that society still struggles to accept a woman’s autonomy, especially when she’s beautiful, assertive, and self-sufficient. There’s a quiet satisfaction some take in imagining that "something must have gone wrong" for women like her ,as if joy, power, and independence must always come with hidden sorrow. It's an odd emotional consumerism: we feed our own emptiness by imagining tragedy in someone else's abundance.
And isn’t that what’s happening now? Projecting our own ideas of loneliness, morality, and victimhood onto a woman who, by all accounts, was never truly alone? Who had love, companionship, and power until her final breath?
Why do we insist on seeing her through a patriarchal, pitying lens? Why ignore her radiance just to align her story with our outdated moral codes? Even some of her fellow artists,,why do they echo this scripted sorrow rather than celebrate the legacy of someone who lived larger than life?
I can't help but wonder: would the same empathy be offered to others who suffered quietly and were erased from our conversations long before their final days? Or is this selective mourning reserved only for those whose deaths we can turn into symbols?
Malani’s life wasn’t a silent tragedy,
it was cinematic, defiant, and brilliant.
To reduce it now to a tale of longing and lack is to deny everything she embodied.
So let’s not use her passing as a mirror for our own regrets or a stage for our performances.
Let’s remember her with the dignity she deserves as a woman who danced with life, who loved and lost and still rose, fierce and free.
If that truth is hard to accept, perhaps the issue isn’t with her life but with how we’ve learned to see women like her.

Nilakshi Helapitiya

26/01/2026

Suppadevi 👑️

She crossed the threshold
and was never whole again.

A mother held between longing and fate,
she turned away from what called her soul,
but not from the love that named her.

She returned carrying an ache
the world would never ask men to bear.

This is what remains:
love without refuge,
sacrifice without end.

Nilakshi Helapitiya

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26/01/2026

A Muse Lost in a Van Gogh Room

She did not enter the room
the room absorbed her.

Blue walls breathe in brushstrokes,
a bed waits like memory,
chairs hold the shape of absence.

She sits between colours that remember pain,
where yellow tries for hope
and blue refuses.

She is suspended,
stitched into oil and ache,
learning how loneliness hums
when it survives.

Unfinished,
unrescued,
held forever in a moment
that aches beautifully.

Nilakshi Helapitiya