14/08/2026
I’ve gone back and forth about sharing these because truthfully, messages like this overwhelm me a little.
I’m really hard on myself. I am absolutely my own biggest critic. I can finish something I’ve worked incredibly hard on and, instead of letting myself feel proud of it, my brain goes straight to what I could have done better, what I’d change next time and what I need to do next. Stopping to recognise what went right doesn’t come as naturally to me.
Owning a dance studio is an interesting job. I don’t think people always see it as a real job, or understand the responsibility that comes with it.
But at the heart of it, these are people’s children.
Parents trust me with them week after week. Not just to teach them how to dance, but to create an environment where they feel safe, included, challenged, encouraged and believed in. And I have always taken that responsibility seriously.
There are so many decisions made behind the scenes that nobody will ever know about. So many hours, conversations, worries, second guesses and moments where I wonder whether I’m getting it right.
The Phoenix Championships was something I had pictured for a long time. I wanted it to be about so much more than who won or where someone placed, and reading these messages afterwards made me realise that what I hoped the day would represent was exactly what our families saw and felt too.
Of course, true to form, my brain was already picking apart what I could improve for next time. So when messages like these started coming through afterwards, they made me stop.
Thank you to every parent who took the time to write these words - the ones I’ve shared here and the ones I haven’t. Please know I have read every single one.
You’re the reason that this week I actually stopped and allowed myself to see what I’ve done, instead of immediately thinking about what I need to do next.
I am incredibly proud of what I’m building. Phoenix Dance Team is becoming exactly what I always hoped it would be. Sometimes I just need reminding to stop long enough to see it.
That means more to me than you probably realise.
🖤💛
- Miss Tara X