09/02/2026
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Imagine for second dropping your teenage daughter off for a totally normal weekend sleepover, completely unaware that the stepdad of the house was a convicted s*x offender and was supposed to be in court the very next morning.
If you haven't heard about the Jesse McFadden case here in Oklahoma, this one is absolutely horrifying.
And honestly, the more you learn about his history, the more questions you have about how he was allowed to be around children.
McFadden had been convicted of first degree r**e in 2003 and spent 17 years in prison. While he was still incarcerated, he was caught using a contraband cellphone to contact a 16 year old girl and exchange n**e photos.
He was eventually released in 2020.
After getting out, he married a woman named Holly and moved with her and her three children to a rural area here in Oklahoma.
From what Holly's family has said, she was a very protective and devoted mom. There doesn't seem to be any indication that she knew everything about McFadden's past.
Then in 2023, Holly's 13 year old daughter Tiffany had two friends over for the weekend. Ivy Webster was 14 and Brittany Brewer was 15.
Their parents thought they were dropping their daughters off for a typical teenage sleepover.
They had no idea McFadden was supposed to be in court that Monday morning facing new charges.
When Ivy and Brittany didn't come home Sunday , their families started looking for them. Then Monday morning came, McFadden didn't show up for court and police went to the property.
What they found was devastating! 😭😭
Seven people were dead, including Holly, her three children, Ivy and Brittany. McFadden also died by su***de.
Investigators later determined that Ivy and Brittany had been s*xually assaulted before they were killed. I debated whether to include that detail, but I think it's important because these girls went to that house for what their parents thought was a completely normal sleepover.
And this is the part I keep coming back to.
Those two girls' parents had no idea about the man living in that home. They trusted that their daughters were safe going to a friend's house.
In today's day and age, it's so sad that children cannot simply go to a friend's home for a sleepover anymore.
As a father of a 6 year old boy, my wife and I will not allow him to sleep over at any friend's house. FULL STOP! 🛑
We are not willing to gamble with our sons safety.
If you have children, do you allow sleepovers? Or have you decided the same as us?
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