05/03/2021
One of the reasons you still ask yourself such questions as
Do I love him/her?
Do I love it?
Does she/him love me?
Is because your understanding of love is still rudimentary.
Stuck on the surface level of the mind
You're attached to your love so deeply, you're unable to see it truly.
You put all types of conditions and requirements for your love purely to satisfy your ego.
I can only love someone if they do this or that or behave like this or that or make me feel like this or that.
Creating conflict between your mind and your heart.
To know love, let go of the mind
Feel with the heart completely
Don't explain, justify, reason.
Just feel
Feel the pain of loving and losing, the pain of loving and not having it returned, the joy of finding new love, the ecstacy of that love blossoming
Feel it all. Don't get attached to the good or run from the bad. Feel it all with no discrimination or restrictions
It might start of being only bad emotions, eventually the good will outweigh the bad til the point where the bad ceases to even be relevant
Don't think, just feel