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Life With Sticklers Raising awareness, understanding and acceptance of Stickler Syndrome & comorbidities through my life!

Today is my survival anniversary! ✨🙌One year ago on May 10th, my life changed forever. Just four days after undergoing a...
05/10/2026

Today is my survival anniversary! ✨🙌

One year ago on May 10th, my life changed forever. Just four days after undergoing a major vascular transplant-bypass operation, I suffered massive internal bleeding, hemorrhaging that nearly took my life. The pressure from the blood building up in my abdomen became so severe that my lungs collapsed, and everything changed in a matter of moments when I was rushed back for emergency surgery. What was supposed to be recovery quickly became survival.

I do not think I will ever forget the unbelievable amount of pain I felt that day. It truly felt like all of my internal organs were going to rupture out of my stomach at any moment from the pressure building inside of me. At one point, shortly before my emergency CT scan, the pain became so overwhelming that I stopped reacting to it altogether. I no longer cared to talk, move, or even respond much. Brett immediately knew something was horribly wrong because anyone who knows me knows I am always talking, and this time I was quietly shutting down.

I remember starting to struggle to take a full breath, but by then I almost did not care anymore. I just kept thinking to myself, “one more breath” and “it’ll be okay, the doctors are trying to figure out what’s wrong.” Then the doctors came in and delivered the news that they were taking me back for emergency surgery immediately.

There was no time to process it all. No time to call anyone. Barely enough time to tell Brett that I loved him and to please call my mom.

I still remember being rolled into the operating room and watching doctors rush around me as the anesthesiologist worked quickly to put me under so the surgeons could begin. In order to save my life, they had to fully reopen my abdomen to find and stop the source of the bleeding. I ultimately ended up with over 58 staples across my abdomen and right thigh along with a wound vac as my body fought to recover from the trauma it had endured.

There are memories from that time that still do not feel real. The fear, the uncertainty, the ICU, the alarms, the pain, and the overwhelming realization of how fragile life truly is. But somehow, through emergency surgery, incredible medical care, and the support of a few people who refused to give up on me despite the odds, I survived.

Today marks 365 days since that moment.

This past year has not been easy. Survival does not mean life suddenly returns to normal. There has been healing, grief, trauma, setbacks, gratitude, growth, and learning how to live in a body that has been through so much. But there has also been laughter, love, purpose, sunsets, small victories, and moments I would have missed had I not made it through that night.

If you are able to donate blood, please consider doing so. Blood donations save lives every single day, and one small act of kindness can become part of someone else’s survival story.

Today is my survival anniversary and I am still here. My body may be scarred, but my body is beautiful! 🤍🙌

After I’ve been standing for a bit, my legs start to get really blotchy and mottled, with patches of red, purple, dark p...
05/03/2026

After I’ve been standing for a bit, my legs start to get really blotchy and mottled, with patches of red, purple, dark pink, and lighter areas mixed in. It can look a little alarming if you’re not used to seeing it, but for me this comes down to blood pooling and circulation issues. Instead of my blood moving back up toward my heart like it should, gravity pulls more of it down into my legs and it just kind of stays there. That uneven blood flow is what creates that marbled, patchy look on my skin.

In my case, it doesn’t just go away when I sit down right away, which shows how much my circulation is being affected. I have dysautonomia, which means my autonomic nervous system doesn’t regulate things like heart rate and blood flow the way it should, especially when I’m upright. On top of that, I have a vascular compression disorder in my abdomen, so blood flow is already being restricted higher up. When you put all of that together, with my connective tissue disorder it makes it even harder for my body to circulate blood properly.

So what you’re seeing isn’t a rash or irritation, it’s a real-time look at how my body is handling blood flow and trying to keep up!

(For context the strap of my AFO is not tight, and the padding has ridges to encourage blood + air flow)

Living with Stickler Syndrome means our joints do not always follow the typical timeline of wear and stability. That is ...
04/29/2026

Living with Stickler Syndrome means our joints do not always follow the typical timeline of wear and stability. That is why regular visits with an orthopedist are not just routine, they are essential, and they should begin early in life.

Many individuals with Stickler Syndrome start showing joint wear far sooner than expected, sometimes even in childhood. It is not uncommon to see early signs of joint changes, including juvenile arthritis, joint instability, or differences in alignment at a young age. Children may not always have the words to explain what they are feeling, and what looks like growing pains, clumsiness, or fatigue can sometimes be early indicators that deserve a closer look.

Having an orthopedist involved early creates a baseline. It allows providers to track subtle changes over time rather than reacting only once pain or injury becomes significant. Early monitoring can open the door to supportive care like physical therapy, strengthening plans, activity modifications, bracing, or even mobility support when needed. These small steps can help protect joints, reduce long term damage, and support confidence in movement as children grow!

This is not about searching for “problems”. It is about giving your child every advantage. Early and consistent orthopedic care can play a key role in preserving mobility, managing discomfort, and helping children with Stickler Syndrome stay active and supported throughout each stage of life.

Today was The Marfan Foundation NC Walk Victory, and it was nothing short of incredible. Together, everyone fundraised a...
04/25/2026

Today was The Marfan Foundation NC Walk Victory, and it was nothing short of incredible. Together, everyone fundraised an amazing $97,003 toward the $100,000 goal for the 2026 North Carolina Walk for Victory, which is such a powerful reflection of this community’s heart and dedication. There were so many people in attendance this year, and it was especially moving to see such a strong presence of virtual walkers showing up from wherever they were!

Team Stickler, representing Stickler Syndrome, had 16 teammates this year, with 13 participating virtually. We know this year has been difficult for so many, and while not everyone could be there in person, the support, encouragement, and awareness shared from afar meant just as much.

Representation and awareness truly matter, especially for Stickler Syndrome. The more people who understand it, the better chance individuals and families have at early diagnosis, which can make a life-changing difference. Early interventions and proper monitoring can help manage complications like vision, hearing, joint, and heart concerns before they become more severe. Increased awareness also helps drive research forward, bringing hope for improved treatments and a deeper understanding of how this condition affects each person differently. Every shared story, every step taken, and every dollar raised helps build that momentum.

We are so hopeful that next year even more people will join our team and continue this mission with us. On a personal note, I was incredibly surprised and honored to receive the Most Spirited award, which felt especially uplifting after such a challenging year. “Most spirited” is one of those awards that isn’t about skill or performance; it’s about energy and presence. If it’s being given to you, it usually means people see you as someone who lifts others up and brings something extra to the environment. Moments like that remind me why this community means so much. I also had the chance to meet a few new families and individuals with Stickler’s, and those connections are truly priceless. Today was a beautiful reminder that none of us are walking this journey alone.

Also, Today April 25th is National DNA Day, a day that highlights the power of genetics in shaping our health and understanding our bodies. For families affected by conditions like Stickler Syndrome, it’s a reminder of how important genetic research, early diagnosis, and awareness truly are. Every step forward in science brings more answers, better care, and hope for the future!

As many of you know I had already received genetic testing back in 2014 that confirmed Stickler Syndrome Type 1. However...
04/24/2026

As many of you know I had already received genetic testing back in 2014 that confirmed Stickler Syndrome Type 1. However my symptoms have always presented more severe and abnormally compared to more individuals with the same type. Because of this and my children’s new diagnoses (outside of just sticklers), I was offered full genome sequencing through our genetics team. Genetic testing has come a long way since 2014 so we were hopeful we would get answers and on Tuesday we finally discovered why my Sticker Syndrome presents differently compared to most!

When I received my genetic results, they showed a variant in the COL2A1 gene written as c.1414G>T, p.E472*. The COL2A1 gene is responsible for producing type II collagen, a protein that helps form the structure of connective tissues in the body, including the eyes, joints, ears, and parts of the face. Changes in this gene are the most common cause of Stickler syndrome type 1. In my case, the laboratory classified the variant as likely pathogenic. In medical genetics, this classification follows guidelines from the American College of Medical Genetics and Genomics and means there is greater than 90 percent confidence that the variant is disease causing. (based on my symptoms we already know that it is definitely disease causing)

The specific type of change identified in my gene is called a nonsense mutation. This means the mutation introduces what scientists call a premature stop codon. Normally, genes act like instructions for building proteins step by step. My variant causes those instructions to stop early at position 472 of the protein. Instead of finishing the entire collagen protein, the body encounters a stop signal too soon. A helpful way to imagine this is like following a recipe that suddenly says stop halfway through baking a cake. The cake never finishes baking because the instructions ended too early.

When a premature stop signal occurs, cells often activate a protective process called nonsense mediated decay. This is a natural quality control system that detects faulty genetic instructions and destroys them before they can produce a damaged protein. In other words, instead of making a shortened or defective collagen protein, the body often destroys the message entirely. This results in what geneticists call a loss of function variant, meaning one copy of the gene is no longer able to do its job.

Loss of function in the COL2A1 gene is a well established mechanism that causes Stickler syndrome. Humans typically have two copies of most genes, one from each parent. In conditions like Stickler syndrome, having only one working copy of the gene can be enough to produce symptoms. Scientists call this haploinsufficiency, which simply means one copy of the gene does not provide enough protein for normal function. An everyday example would be trying to run a two engine airplane with only one working engine. The plane may still fly, but it may not perform the way it was originally designed.

Another important detail is where the mutation occurs within the gene. The COL2A1 gene contains many sections called exons, and my variant occurs in exon 22 out of 54. Because the stop signal appears relatively early in the gene, the cell recognizes the message as faulty and removes it through the nonsense mediated decay process. This means my body likely does not produce a shortened collagen protein from that copy of the gene at all. Instead, it relies entirely on the remaining working copy of the gene to produce type II collagen.

Another interesting detail in my report is that this specific variant has not previously been reported in major genetic databases such as ClinVar or the Genome Aggregation Database. These databases contain genetic information from large numbers of people and are used by scientists to see how common certain variants are. When a variant is not found in these databases, it usually means it is extremely rare or newly discovered. This does not mean it is harmless. In fact, when a rare variant clearly disrupts an important gene like COL2A1, it often supports the idea that it is disease causing.

Because my mutation appears to be rare and causes the gene to stop working earlier than it should, my presentation of Stickler syndrome may not look exactly the same as someone whose mutation occurs in a different part of the gene. Genetic conditions can vary widely even when they involve the same gene. The location of the mutation, how the body handles the altered genetic message, and other genetic or environmental factors can all influence how symptoms appear in each person. Some mutations in this gene produce abnormal collagen that interferes with normal collagen fibers, while others, like mine, reduce the total amount of collagen available in the body. Both mechanisms can lead to connective tissue differences, but they may affect people in different ways.

Even though my mutation likely prevents the production of a faulty collagen protein, it also means my body is functioning with only about half the normal amount of type II collagen. Type II collagen plays a major structural role in cartilage, the vitreous gel of the eye, parts of the inner ear, and certain skeletal tissues. When there is less of this collagen available, those tissues may have less structural support and resilience over time. A simple way to picture this is to imagine building a suspension bridge with half the usual number of support cables. The bridge may still stand and function, but the structure has less reserve strength when stress is placed on it.

In simple terms, my results show that my body has one copy of the COL2A1 gene that stops working partway through building the collagen protein. The cell’s quality control system likely removes that message before the protein can be made, leaving my body with only one fully working copy of the gene. That reduced collagen production is what leads to the features of Stickler syndrome. Because my specific mutation appears to be rare and previously unreported, and because genetic conditions can vary widely from person to person, it may help explain why some aspects of my experience with Stickler syndrome appear more severe or somewhat different than what many people expect when they read the typical description of the condition.

Genetics is fascinating, and I’m glad to be a part of the research for Stickler Syndrome!

It is important to understand that taking collagen supplements will not correct this type of genetic change. The issue is not that my body lacks access to collagen as a nutrient, but that one copy of the gene responsible for producing type II collagen is not functioning properly. Collagen supplements are broken down into amino acids during digestion, just like any other protein, and they do not travel directly to connective tissues as intact collagen. Because of this, they cannot replace or repair the missing genetic instructions needed to produce type II collagen within the body. While general nutrition is always important for overall health, supplements, creams, etc cannot override or fix a loss of function mutation at the genetic level.

Update from Team SticklerI wanted to share a quick update with everyone who has been supporting our family and following...
04/24/2026

Update from Team Stickler

I wanted to share a quick update with everyone who has been supporting our family and following our journey.

Unfortunately, both of my boys will not be attending the North Carolina Walk for Victory tomorrow. I especially wanted to let people know ahead of time because a few families in the area have children around the same age who were hoping to meet my both of my boys at the event.

After some recent and very difficult medical diagnoses, we have had to make the hard decision that it is in their best interest to sit this one out. The combination of new medical challenges along with mobility issues and higher temperatures makes it unsafe for them to participate this year, especially my youngest son.

While they won’t be at the walk, they definitely won’t be missing out on the fun. Their amazing aunt already has some special alternative activities planned for them that same day, so they will still get to enjoy something meaningful and exciting in their own way.

This decision was not an easy one. The Walk for Victory means so much to our family, and the boys have always loved being part of such a supportive and encouraging community. Our hope is that over the coming year we can gather the additional medical resources, specialists, and adaptive equipment they need so that next year they will be ready to celebrate with everyone again.

Over the coming months, we will share a little more about these diagnoses, but for now, we are taking it one step at a time.

As we move forward navigating these new diagnoses on top of their already established Stickler syndrome, I ask that you please keep both of my children in your thoughts and prayers throughout the upcoming year. These diagnoses have not been easy ones.

Team Stickler WILL still be attending the event. I will be there along with my partner and a few other supporters, walking in honor of the boys and continuing to raise awareness for the community that means so much to us.

Thank you for always standing with our family and cheering on Team Stickler. Your support truly means more than words can say. 💜💚

— Emily
Life With Sticklers

Only 5 days left until the North Carolina Walk for Victory in Raleigh! 💜💚If you have been thinking about joining us, thi...
04/21/2026

Only 5 days left until the North Carolina Walk for Victory in Raleigh! 💜💚

If you have been thinking about joining us, this is your reminder to sign up and walk with our team in support of people and families affected by Stickler syndrome and other connective tissue conditions like Marfan Syndrome, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, and Loeys-Dietz Syndrome.

In-person registration:
• Adults (18+) – $35
• Children – Free

Virtual walkers – Free!
If you cannot make it to Raleigh this Saturday or the cost of traveling is not doable right now, you can still be part of our team by signing up as a virtual walker. Walking virtually is a simple way to stand with us, raise awareness, and show support from wherever you are.

As the Community Chair representing Stickler syndrome for the North Carolina Walk for Victory, both last year and again this year, this event means so much to me and to the families it helps. Every walker and every donation helps fund research, support patients, and ultimately save lives.

If you sign up as a virtual walker, I would love to celebrate you! If you take a photo wearing Stickler Syndrome colors (purple and green), feel free to send it to me. With your permission, I would love to feature your photo on my blog Life With Sticklers as a way to show appreciation and highlight how our community can come together as a team, even from different places.

If walking is not your thing, you can still make a huge difference by donating or simply sharing this post so others can join us.

No matter how you participate, you are helping bring hope to families like mine. 💜💚

Register, donate, or join my team here:
https://give.marfan.org/Stickler2026

04/11/2026

Chronic pain can be exhausting —physically and mentally. That's why we're offering this free, virtual Empowered Relief® session, developed at Stanford University, you’ll gain simple, science-backed strategies to help you feel more in control.

Register here: https://marfan.org/calendar/empowered-pain-relief-course/

In this 2.5-hour webinar on May 6, attendees will explore:
• Mindfulness techniques
• Relaxation methods
• Ways to shift how you respond to pain

You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Save your spot today 💜❤️💙💚

April is National Donate Life Month, and for me it carries a very personal meaning.When people think about donation, the...
04/08/2026

April is National Donate Life Month, and for me it carries a very personal meaning.

When people think about donation, they often think about organ donation. What many people do not realize is that tissue donation is just as important and life changing for so many people. Donated tissue can help rebuild joints and ligaments like mine, restore sight through cornea transplants, help burn victims heal through skin grafts, repair heart valves in children, and even help surgeons rebuild bone after traumatic injuries or cancer.

In the same year, I had two separate knee surgeries, each repaired with cadaver donor tissue from two different individuals. That means that somewhere, two families experienced unimaginable loss, and in the middle of their grief they chose to say yes to donation.

Because of them, I was given healing my body desperately needed. Their loved ones’ gifts became part of my story and part of my body in a way that words will never fully capture.

I will never know their names, but I carry their gifts with me every single day. Two lives were lost, yet through their families’ compassion, pieces of those lives continue helping others.

Donation is one of the most selfless acts imaginable. In the midst of heartbreak, two families chose generosity, and because of that their loved ones’ legacy lives on in people like me.

If you have ever thought about becoming a donor, please know your decision can change someone’s life in ways you may never see, but that they will feel every day for the rest of their life.

To the two donors and the families who made that brave decision, thank you. Your loved ones’ gifts will always be honored and remembered. 🩵💚

04/02/2026

Living with multiple medical conditions means that sometimes the smallest daily tasks can become the biggest obstacles. Because of my Stickler Syndrome, dysautonomia, IIH and the fact that I often need to use a wheelchair, something as simple as dropping an item on the floor can quickly turn into a real challenge.

That’s where my service dog, Apollo makes such a meaningful difference in my daily life.

One of the most helpful tasks he performs is retrieving items that I drop. Whether it’s my phone, keys, wallet, med bag or even something small like a pen, he can pick it up and place it directly into my hand. This might seem like a simple trick to some people, but for me it means maintaining independence and avoiding situations that could cause pain, dizziness, or even injury..

Here is a short, fun video of him demonstrating his retrieval task with my medical-alert card holder.

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