03/10/2022
Not my typical post but it’s my truth. It’s not easy to make things work in a world where bigger and better is at your fingertips. With my childhood bumpy, I didn’t learn what it means to be accountable in all situations, I didn’t learn to stick it out with out holding grudges. I didn’t believe in happy endings and I didn’t understand what it meant to not take everything personal. Took a long to see my own faults because I had been protecting my self for so long as a child. I’ve done a lot of reflecting and been in therapy for years on years and I’ve come to a lot of conclusions. Marriage isn’t easy, probably why divorce rates will always be high. Raising kids is back and heart breaking, and step parenting is not for the weak. Making relationships work with family is painful but rewarding when you realize we all have our own opinions based off our life experiences and it’s ok to not agree and just listen. Nothing will put life into perspective more then a picture tho and I’m here to say don’t throw the towel in when it gets hard. Reflect, breath, and remind yourself to meet people where they are, they are doing their best even if it’s not what “best” looks like for you. We are a nation of “remove everything toxic” and I’m here to tell you unless someone’s trying to kill you, it’s probably something you should learn to work thru. We are meant to LEARN to communicate with each other no matter what level we are on. We are emotional creatures and it’s a fun fact that our cells take the MOST cellular damage over EMOTIONS. Someone loosing a loved one is more damage to our body then being in a car wreck and in a coma for 6 months. Don’t believe me? Look it up, and the next time you want to give up on a hard situation, or think it’s a mistake to try know that fireworks, penicillin, X-rays, heart pacers, and good old chocolate chip cookies were created from just that, mistakes people didn’t give up on. STOP GIVING UP AND PUSH THRU, there is a whole other side, and it’s full of love and fulfillment. I still have hard days but now I know they pass with out regret because I don’t give up and give it my all.