06/17/2026
Do they talk about the future and include you in it naturally, without prompting?
Do you feel chosen on ordinary days, not just when something threatened the relationship?
Do you feel secure without having to perform, convince, or wait for confirmation?
If the honest answer to more than one of these is no, the question worth sitting with is not whether they love you. It is whether the love they are offering is the kind that was ever going to be enough.
β π Comment your honest answers β yes, no, or still figuring it out.