08/17/2026
Notions
by Paula Gordon Lepp
Look at the silver lining, they say.
But what if, instead,
I pluck it off
and use that tensile strand to bind
myself to those things I do not
want to lose sight of.
Families knit together by evening walks,
board games, laughter.
The filament fixing us to friends
no matter the distance apart.
A braid of gratitude for small kindnesses.
The thin gauge wire of loss.
Let me twist that lining
around my finger,
it’s silvery glint a reminder
of just how quickly life can change.
I will remember to love more.
I will remember to give more.
I will remember to be still
I will knot the string tightly.
So it won’t slip away.
So I won’t forget.
……..
I found this incredible poem recently in one of my favorite books of poetry called, “How to Love the World: Poems of Gratitude and Hope.” It feels perfect to read again as I make a new set of nature printed prayer flags this morning. My focus as I stitch is on feeling gratitude for the loving relationships in my life and the precious meaning of each of our unique connections that I hold in my heart that are all woven together to create a strong, resilient tapestry of love and support in my life.
These flags are made from a fabric meditation book I took apart last night that I made maybe 4 or 5 years ago. I gathered each of the flowers and leaves I printed from my mom’s garden and the white linen was from her fabric stash too. The strand is from a blanket a dear friend gave me. I love making these prayer flags, the personal meaning grows and deepens as I work on each set. May we all feel loved, supported and held by those who love and care for us and may we do the same for them.❤️