06/02/2024
?! ?🫀CoMo La Quieres 🧠?!? When pple ask me where I go to meet women, I like to remind them: EVERYWHERE. Nothing draws my attention more than someone who’ll give me access to their imagination and an open mind, which like maturity, I’ve realized isn’t tied to an age group as I once thought 🏁Everything that people hate about relationships, I love..but I certainly can’t stay attached to the ones that compromise my freedom 🛣️Trying to explain my attachment style hasn’t been easy, esp when my identity gets stacked up against stereotypes that literally have nothing to do with me 🫥🫥🫥 100% of my formative years were spent w/babes in my age group. After my relationship w/my college gf ended, I felt that I was mature enough to pursue women that were slightly older (5-12 yrs older) than myself, a decision I haven’t regretted. In this era before returning back to my peer group, I got to understand the difference btwn hooking up, dating (giving things a chance), and getting serious (committing to xyz). This break I took from being someone’s 1st serious relationship …allowed for me to evolve with very little collateral damage 🎯I enjoyed hookups that didn’t get weird abt sharing affection. I think my favorite hookups actually are w/women that *are relationship material but not looking (if I had to pick). I haven’t spent much time pursuing younger women, I’ve crushed on maybe 3 in my life sure, but there are just certain humiliations I’d rather not revisit anymore if I can help it 😂❤️🩹 I get that certain dynamics are connected to invalidating systems that are hard to untangle from… that I’ve had compassion for… but ultimately, I think my best matches have been with women/pple that were able to commit to the moment w/me….not necessarily to me if that makes sense?? I am one of the most non- possessive people you’ll meet, so if you are looking for insight re: q***r relationships, keep that in mind ok?? Being non-possessive is also a biohack that’s prevented me from losing my mind all the goddamn time 😂😂😂❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹🫀🫀🫀