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09/10/2026

Sometimes being single isn’t about missing dates, romance, or having someone to text at the end of the night.

Sometimes it’s realizing you want an emergency contact.

Someone I love very much, someone who is like family to me, is in the hospital right now. He’s going to be okay, and the details are his story to tell, not mine. But sitting there and visiting him today made me think about life a little differently. HIS life obviously, and then reflectively, mine…

I have incredible friends. I have family. I have people who show up for me, and I know how lucky I am…but I also realized that when I say I want a partner, THIS is part of what I mean.

I want my *person*. 💔

The person who knows.
The person who gets the call.
The person I build a life with.
The person whose name I write on that stupid line.

Sooo, today’s episode of, “I’m Single Again in the City” feels a bit different. 💙

Thanks for letting me just feel for a sec….🙏

09/09/2026

….First, I’m just casuallyyyy talking to a COMPLETE STRANGER (thought my friend was behind me)…and THEN she shows me a giant fake spider knowing damn well I’m TERRIFIED of spiders. 🕷️🙄

I need new friends. 😂….

09/07/2026

…No doorknob. Landlord out of town. Midnight… What’s a single girl to do??? “Soooo… do we call the fire department?” —- ::Ashley RUNS to get her lipgloss 💄😉😉😉

WELL—We did NOT end up calling them, but for a solid few minutes I was trying to come up with an outfit to wear in my mind—- “oh thisssssssss? I just threw this on😂”

So what did we do??! I facebook messaged my landlord in Greece, she had a friend of a friend- of a friend come over- and HAZZAH!✨✨✨

Thanks New York! 🗽

09/05/2026

Thanks for the dope surprise gift YSL …. AND he understood the assignment and spelled my name correctly! … still can’t get over the fact my ex spelled it wrong, and got mad and defensive when I CRIED on my birthday lmao.😂😂😂

But in all seriousness- my bandmate, and friend YSL is a jack of all trades. Talk about a person who’s lived different lives! Currently MC’ing in this one and running his own business where he motivates and trains students with special needs.

He’s amazing and I wanted you to know! Check out House of Payne! … thanks again🙏😎🎤

09/04/2026

Check on your single friends…🤣🤣🤣

August was kinda a vibe…💛💙🖤
09/01/2026

August was kinda a vibe…💛💙🖤

08/31/2026

Love is Blind, Bumble, pickup lines… let’s chat! 😎

08/28/2026

…think this will work on my crush?! 😉 Fingers crossed💙🤞🙈

Also- channeling my inner Joss Stone🎤

08/27/2026

On today’s episode of: (Insert Gen Z hand wave) “I’m single again in the city”…. Also, please excuse my allergy cold. I opened my window yesterday and basically died…😂

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