10/13/2026
Make You Think Monday: What If You're Not Behind?
What if you've simply been on a different path?
I've spent much of my adult life trying to figure out what I wanted to be when I grew up.
And I'm not exaggerating. 😂
I've had different jobs, explored different careers, and made some pretty significant changes along the way.
Sometimes I got bored.
Sometimes I didn't like my boss.
Sometimes I felt like there had to be something more meaningful I was supposed to be doing.
And sometimes life handed me a devastating loss that made everything I thought mattered suddenly seem less important.
So I'd make a change.
Start something new.
Learn something different.
And eventually find myself wondering, once again, if this was really what I was meant to do.
For years, I sometimes wondered why I couldn't just settle into one career like so many other people seemed to do.
Why couldn't I be satisfied?
Why did I always feel like I was searching for something?
Now, in my 50s, I think I'm finally beginning to understand.
Maybe I wasn't lost.
Maybe I was learning.
Every job taught me something.
Every career change introduced me to different people, skills, and experiences.
Every disappointment taught me something about what I didn't want.
And some of the most painful experiences of my life completely changed what I believed was important.
Today, as an author, entrepreneur, podcaster, and speaker, I finally feel like I've found my purpose.
And for the first time, I feel like I'm on the right path.
What's fascinating is that I use something from almost every chapter of my life in the work I do today.
Maybe those years weren't detours after all. Maybe they were preparation.
I think we put far too much pressure on ourselves to figure everything out early in life.
Choose a career.
Find your passion.
Build your future.
Stay on track.
But whose track?
Some people discover their purpose at 20.
Others at 40.
Some of us don't begin to recognize it until we're in our 50s, 60s, or beyond.
And I think that's because our purpose is often shaped by the very experiences we haven't lived yet.
The people we meet.
The mistakes we make.
The losses we endure.
The opportunities we pursue.
The things we discover about ourselves along the way.
What if you couldn't have become who you are today without first being all the people you were before?
I've chosen BECOMING as my word for this year.
And maybe that's what becoming really means to me.
Not finally arriving at some perfect destination.
But recognizing that every chapter has contributed to the person I am today.
I don't regret having different careers.
I don't regret exploring different paths.
And I no longer feel like I need to explain why it took me so long to figure out what I wanted to do.
Because I'm finally doing something that feels meaningful to me.
So if you're looking around and wondering why everyone else seems to have figured out their lives while you're still searching, consider this:
Maybe you're not behind.
Maybe you're gathering the experiences, wisdom, and perspective that will eventually lead you somewhere you can't even imagine today.
And when you get there, you might look back and realize that none of it was wasted.
Your path to purpose doesn't have to look like anyone else's.
And there's no age limit on discovering what makes you feel truly alive.
Have you always known what you wanted to do, or did it take you a few different paths to discover your purpose?