04/24/2026
Dear Andrea,
I am writing to share a poem I wrote for you following your visit. I wanted to express my sincere appreciation for the kindness and humanity you showed me.
You Showed Up and Showed Kindness
You knocked
like you’d been here before..
and you had.
Not as a stranger
stepping into something broken,
but as someone who already knew
this place had breath in it.
“My garage door,” I said once,
that kind of call,
the kind nobody wants to make,
and still, you showed up then too.
And you remembered.
“I miss Milo,” you said
like he wasn’t just a cat,
like he was something worth holding onto
after a long shift.
And Indie...
of course you remembered Indie,
but not like small talk,
not like filling silence..
you said it
like it mattered.
And that’s what got me.
Because people pass through my life
like I don’t stick...
like I’m temporary,
like nothing here is worth remembering.
But you came back
carrying pieces of before with you...
Not paperwork.
Not notes.
Memory.
You stood there
kind, laid back, real, so dang real,
like I didn’t have to brace myself,
for what you might take from me.
I asked you,
“Are you gonna take me to jail?”
Because that’s how life feels lately...
like everything’s one step away
from being taken.
You said no.
Just here to check on you.
And something in me
finally unclenched.
I told you about the bills,
the weight,
everything stacking higher than breath...
and you didn’t try to fix me.
You just stayed human.
You said,
“I don’t really like people…
but this is my job, and I love it.
When I get off work, I decompress.”
And somehow that made it better...
because it was honest,
because you weren’t pretending
to be anything more
than a person doing her best
in a hard world.
And still...
you were kind.
Not forced.
Not fake.
Real.
You didn’t come to take.
You didn’t come to judge.
You didn’t come to make me smaller
than everything I’m carrying.
You came in,
remembered my animals,
remembered this space,
and reminded me...
I’m still here
as a person.
Andrea...
I don’t know your last name,
don’t know your life outside that uniform...
but I know this:
You walked in twice,
and both times
you left something behind
that wasn’t heavy.
You left something softer.
Something steady.
Something that felt like…
love.
A piece of God
in a moment that needed it.
A piece of yourself
you didn’t have to give...
but did.
And it made me proud.
Because my dad was a firefighter.
Because I know what it means
to show up for people
when they’re at their worst.
And to know
people like you
still exist...
means something.
Best regards,
04/24/2026
Jodi Harsh
My Harsh Words ™