10/13/2026
It took me a LONG time before I felt comfortable bringing Bernie into a pet store.
And honestly? There was a very good reason for that.
For a dog like Bernie, a pet store can be an absolute sensory overload. At the height of his reactivity, the increased chance of encountering another dog was the last thing I wanted to deal with. We were working hard on his reactions, and I wasn’t interested in putting him in a situation he wasn’t ready to handle.
Then there’s his insane prey drive. 🐀
The birds, rodents, animal smells, tasty snacks, squeaky toys, and everything else packed into a pet store are HIGHLY stimulating for him. There is so much happening at once.
And then… the people. 😅
I can't tell you how many times people have walked right up to Bernie – or other dogs I've worked with – without asking. Pet stores seem to be especially bad for this because people assume that if a dog is there, the dog must want to say hello.
That's simply not true.
If you're working with a reactive, nervous, inexperienced, or easily overstimulated dog, you don't need to start with the hardest environment.
Try a hardware or home improvement store. Look for dog-friendly farm stores, garden centers, or greenhouses. Find somewhere where you can create successful experiences without throwing your dog into the deep end.
Exposure should be intentional, not overwhelming. Your goal isn't to see just how much your dog can tolerate.
Your dog's training isn't a race. ❤️
Set them up for success. Build gradually. And remember that exposure only helps when the dog can actually handle it.
Bernie didn't become comfortable in pet stores overnight. It took time, training, and a LOT of carefully chosen experiences. And seeing how far he's come makes those little milestones mean so much more. 🥰