08/21/2026
A couple asked me today why I do what I do.
Why weddings? Why DJ? Why officiate?
Sixteen years ago, I’m not sure I could have answered that question the way I can today.
Because sometimes we don’t get complete clarity at the beginning. Sometimes God gives us a process instead.
And that process changes us.
It teaches us. Humbles us. Develops character in us. Changes the way we see people. Changes the way we love people. And prepares us for things we never could have seen coming.
Sixteen years ago, I couldn’t have told you this journey would include a wedding business, hundreds of couples and families, or even a cancer diagnosis. It hasn’t looked exactly like I thought it would.
But looking back, I can see how every season has shaped the way I serve people today.
So maybe we don’t have to understand the entire destination right now.
We just keep showing up. Keep growing. Keep trusting. Keep submitting to the process.
Because the process isn’t just taking us somewhere.
The process changes us.