Cunty MeMe

04/14/2025

PRIZE comes out next Tuesday on Bandcamp and on streaming platforms May 8th 🥀

very much venus has gone direct type vibes. im really proud to share my heart with yall.

to all of those who have had their heartbroken especially within these past few months. to those who have had to have the tough realizations about themselves and those who claimed to love em, i only wish to remind you that you deserve the best. that you are not too much. that you should never be felt to shrink yourself in the presence of someone who loves you. hold yourself tight. and please remember, it was THEM who lost. not you. and they KNOW it.

11/29/2024

it’s been a ride ✌🏾

11/13/2024

i’ve had this shirt for around 7 years now and i always wear it with so much pride. by Ilya Parker radically helped change my relationship with my body. our concept of fitness is drenched in these white supremacist body images and “science.” and it’s taken me a lil minute to not only sit with the fatphobia we have all been conditioned to accept, but also what fitness means to someone who can lose their ability to walk from day to day.

but this shirt is my fav also because i am here and was guided down this journey by another fellow trans man who has been working his ass off to continue to provided accessible work out and trainings to q***r folks everywhere along with building and connecting with other like minded q***r and trans trainers. thank you for all that you do! im grateful to be here after surgery, rocking my old shirt, and doubling down on actively decolonizing fitness and getting in tune with my body. please help me give this brilliant being their flowers 💐 support his work by joining their Patreon, donating too the communal gym space he is creating, and sharing his resources and knowledge

11/09/2024

well. im ready for whatever.

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if anyone is interested in hosting an event for organizing, strategy, and work sessions, hmu via email. i just wanna pass on the knowledge that i have gained throughout the decade.

11/01/2024

10/14/2024

(photo for the algo that took of me 🥲)

happy birthday, Octavia ✨✨ Our friendship was so young. It just began. But we dreamed such big dreams together. I still hear you in everything I make and have made. You became the glue for me. You answered prayers I had for years. You answered prayers I didn’t even know I wish for.

Life has continued since you’ve been gone and many days I find myself daydreaming about the life I thought I would have when I got on that plane back to Chicago. I think about where we would’ve been. Like today, I would be getting ready to celebrate your birthday with you. Or at least send some cupcakes thru delivery just for you and the boys. Give you a big hug and tell you how grateful I am to even know you and how proud I am of you. How you are truly a master of life. I wish I could look into your eyes and tell you this. But instead I will have to simply imagine them. So instead of the tears, I will simply hold onto to what could’ve been. Just for today. And say Happy Birthday my love. Our short friendship has brought an immense amount of love and power that I so desperately needed. Thank you for being the force that you are. Thank you for being pushing forward every single day to be you. Thank you for even letting me into your ether. Thank you for believing in me. Thank you for the new friendships and love. I love you so much. We all love you so much. And we miss you greatly.

Please consider donating to help cover Octavia’s funeral expenses ✨ 🔗 on my profile

10/06/2024

just paid for my surgery 🥲 tried to grab groceries and all the store shelves are empty. can barely find water. y’all started hoarding toilet paper again. none of the small things that i can eat are available anyway, so that’s great. who needs food anyway.

lol im still waiting on like MAD money cus the world seems to owe me hella money. until then, anything is helpful. anyway when they put me under, imma go meet Jesus real quick this week, smoke a blunt with him, talk him into to coming down to gather his children before I do, and hopefully be back with a fresh new body. if this is my last post, remember that my pum pum was always fat 🙂‍↕️

09/12/2024

i am so proud of you. i am so proud of who you have become and what you have survived these past two years and f*** these past 16 years.

you have grown so much, and this past year you truly dedicated yourself to being better. you’ve taken the pain, rage, and hurt and put it into your music. i am so grateful to have been able to come back to you this year. we didn’t hide from the ugly or the pain. we faced everything head on. we didn’t hide from our feelings. we didn’t lie to ourselves. fear kicked our ass these past few years tho, but you have finally came out on the other side.

no matter what anyone says about you never forget who tf you are. never forget the lineage you come from. the city that raised you. the scenes that made you. never forget the love that got you here. never forget the lessons your mother showed you. never forget the lessons your father taught you. never forget the loved ones who poured their last breaths into you. let go of the guilt because you have made all your angels so proud

lil em, you have survived so so much. and i am so grateful to say that i see you now. that i will protect you with every fiber of my being. that i will never let anyone try to destroy you or break you. most importantly, i will never be your worst enemy ever again. i am so excited for this new chapter we have ahead of us. it will be truly magical. you deserve all the kindness and compassion in the world. and no one else in this world may give it to you, but i will. and those around you will always give you the love you need in case you forget how to.

i love you so so so much. thank you for all that you have endured to get me here today. thank you for pushing thru. thank you for never giving up. thank you for continuing to open your heart and love even after so much heartbreak. To new beginnings my love. to new beautiful beginnings.

thank you to all of you who have shown me love near and far. thank you for checking in. thank you for your support. thank you for seeing me. my mama cancer free. im getting ready for top surgery. i still have some bread to raise as i ran into unexpected costs with moving. any and all help is appreciated 🫶🏾

09/07/2024

sorry, not sorry.

09/15/2023

Stairway to Heaven is the expression of the dissonance between a severely elevated high and a void filled low. At the time I was in the midwest, and I did wh...

06/22/2023

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What a weekend! Cunty MeMe, a Peach Presents ALT performer Sunday at Chicago Pride Fest photo by Galleries coming soon!