06/30/2026
I don't think it's as difficult to admit at this point in my life that I'm on the downside of what has been an extremely eventful, successful and at times crazy enjoyable 20+ year music career. Its been the honor of my life to perform for an unimaginable amount of people with the attempt at sharing my love of music and entertainment with so many....most of whom I don't know and will never actually meet.
For me, as the skinny socially awkward kid with a stuttering problem that was bullied relentlessly, performing started as a way to gain acceptance and to be "noticed". Over the years it gradually turned into a true love and passion...and, unfortunately, at some point it turned into an obligation and another job. That's when I realized I was no longer taking the stage for the right reasons and I stepped back from a grueling travel schedule with the full band. I can look back and say those memories with my various bandmates, both on and off stage, are still some of my most cherished moments. Maintaining a 160+ yearly average of shows for the past 15 years has been an incredible journey to say the least.
I've never considered my fellow musicians as "competition"....we're all out here doing our versions of the same thing, some for the right reasons and others not so much, and there's plenty of room for all of us to do whatever it is that makes us keep getting out there to do it. As the next generation of performers come up through the ranks I'm encouraged to see them successfully navigating the music business, which has changed so much over the past few years, and some of these young men and women have extraordinary talent. I don't know either of this young men personally, but I caught a few recent videos of Chip Darby (who I can't tag in this post because he doesn't follow me....but hey, I'm just an OG that most of these young'uns have only heard of in old timer stories about the good ol' days)....that kid is real country and looks like he's doing it the right way....and Hunter Courts, who is a rare blend of talent and showmanship that we don't see a lot of anymore...and the few times I've run into him he's been extremely nice and authentic. It's incredible to see the passion that young performers bring and it reminds me when I had that same fire and was out there tearing up h***y tonk and festival stages from here to wherever.
Please keep supporting live music and especially these entertainers that are on the rise. Don't discourage them. And to the younger generation of performers that are out there working every weekend to make your own way...don't let this business tear you down and take away your passion. It can do that quick and fast if you let it.
There will be a time, much sooner than later, where I will begin to seriously discuss retiring from this business. I've been blessed and fortunate....it's been an amazing journey and the music business has been good to me but I've entered my next chapter in life and have other things I'm interested in accomplishing...and quite frankly I feel like it's time for me to move over and let the young guns have it. Some of y'all don't get too excited....it's not happening yet....but really soon.
Long live real country music and the people who love it.
~ WD
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