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JudgmentDay, Rodriguez (2026)

08/06/2026

AITAH for throwing my sisters divorce back at her?

I 26f and my husband 28m have been married 5 years. My sister 30f got married around the same time as us. Unfortunately her and her husband did not work out and they finalized their divorce earlier this year.

Recently we were all staying at my parents house for our mother’s 50th birthday, which was a treat because the 6 of us siblings are rarely at the same place at the same time.

Of course my husband came with me, and my sister seemed weird and jaded the whole time, being very short with him and honestly all of us. The incident happened when my little brother 20m asked if we wanted to go hiking. My sister said she wanted to go and asked if i wanted to. I said no, because my husband was working and I was in charge of our 2 year old and I’d like to stay with my husband. Plus to be honest hiking with a cranky toddler does not appeal to me.

My sister rolled her eyes and said “God how f**cking codependent can you be with each other? Exes name and I were never so attached at the hip.” I responded with maybe that’s why she’s divorced and walked away with our daughter. My sister sent me a very lengthy text about how I was so rude and callous to throw her divorce back in her face and how I was a terrible sister.

My parents refuse to get involved and neither do any of our siblings except my brother who said I was right but should have just ignored her. My husband is on my side obviously.

Am I the a**shole?

07/06/2026

AITAH for refusing to take down my post and letting my ex face the consequences of her cheating?

I was with my ex K for 2 years and living together since a year.

To make all the drama short i found out she was having an affair since 6 months with her boss. I found out about it and broke up with her on the spot. K didn't even tried to justify or denied and just moved out.

But here comes the main thing on all this mess. Honestly i wasn't expecting that she would bring our break up on IG but she did with the classic bs of me holding her back, a brighting future was waiting her and all this type of stuff. But here comes my part because the one thing that made me mad as hell is one of her posts when she said that i was abusing her emotionally and physically. I have a special spot on this because i volunteer in one of those "abused women centers" and i provide housing for real victims of abuse. (It's a long story about a female friend of mine who died because of her ex and that thing particularly touched me and it was the main reason why i'm volunteering)

So you can imagine the rage and anger i felt when she posted about this fake bs so i simply made a post on my ig page with the proofs of her cheating and tagged her directly.

Well the part i wasn't expecting comes now because, to me, for no reason it's like ig decided to make my post goes viral in our community and the internet rage started under her posts. I was expecting maybe someone calling her out and nothing more but the consequences...

07/06/2026

AITA for not wanting to raise my boyfriend’s ex’s kid?

I (30f) and my bf (33m) have been together for 2.5 years, he has a 4 year old daughter with his ex who I’ll call Ashley. Ashley and I have never gotten along. She was extremely abusive to my boyfriend in their past relationship. He has told me some stuff and his family have also told me things they’ve witnessed. She was verbally, physically,& financially abusive. My boyfriend is in therapy to work through it and has made great progress since we started dating. She is extremely manipulative and has continued to exploit my bf the entirety of our relationship, whenever I or his family have pointed it out he just claims he’s being the bigger person for his child.

We dated for almost a year before he let me become a part of his daughter’s life and she adores me. Over the years Ashley has tried a lot with me and it’s gotten to the point where I no longer do pick ups or drop offs with her and I no longer babysit on her court ordered days for her. Which isn’t very often as she takes her daughter only when it’s convenient for her and rarely overnight. My boyfriend understands my feelings and is supportive.

Recently my bf had to do a paternity test to enroll his daughter in a program that will benefit her future. The test came back and he is not her biological father. I was shocked as they look so much alike, however i understand genetics are a random lottery. I gave him space and time to accept and grieve this information. I eventually told him he will need to get legal counsel and inform the biological...

07/06/2026

AITA for telling my daughter she had to break up with her boyfriend or move out after finding out his real age?

I (42f) have a husband (39m) and a daughter who just turned 19. She’s always been strong-willed and independent, but stubborn as all hell. When she was little she wanted to do everything herself, argued about bedtime, could throw huge fits over nothing. As a teen it got worse, she was sneaking out, lying about where she was, refusing curfew, ignoring rules. My husband usually ended up stuck in the middle trying to calm both of us down. Sometimes we went hours without talking. Even with all that, she has a softer side and we’ve always tried to work with her.

She had a manipulative boyfriend when she was younger. She was 16, he was 19. Legally we couldn’t stop them, so there wasn’t much we could do, but we forbade him from coming in the house. He was controlling, jealous, isolating her from friends, pressuring her into things she wasn’t comfortable with.

I know from catching them in the act and from what my daughter told me that, he had snuck her out a couple of times, and she defended him constantly, lied to cover for him. We argued with her, tried to get her to see how manipulative he was, but she was so infatuated she didn’t listen. It ended badly, she was heartbroken, and it took a long time for us to trust each other again and for us to feel like she could make safe and smart choices on her own.

Almost two years ago, she introduced us to her current boyfriend, and she had just turned 18 and was finishing high school. She told us he was 21 when we first met him and she repeated it...

07/06/2026

AITA For Going Off On My Father’s New Family After They Kept Harassing Me Online?

My "dad" walked out on me and my mom when I (19M) was a baby. He didn't pay child support, didn't ever see me, didn't show up at court at any point, and he never reached out to me. I always had questions about him but my mom was always way too nice about it until I turned 18 and she laid it all out for me. She even showed me the file she had for court that showed all the times he didn't show, how much money he owed, the fact she chased after child support for years but he always found a way to avoid paying. For six years she tried to chase him through court until she gave up the fight and let the debt compile because it was costing her money and was taking from her ability to support us.

He was the truest definition of a deadbeat. And I have nothing good to say and no interest in establishing a relationship of any kind.

In September I got a friend request from this woman on Facebook. We had no friends in common so I ignored it. Then I rejected it. She sent it again and so I accepted because I found it weird. A day later a request came from a girl and I rejected that but just like the other account she sent it again. I saw they were friends so I left it ignored. Then a DM came from the account I had accepted the request from.

Turns out this was my deadbeat father's wife and oldest daughter. They wanted to find me because they felt I should know my family and how I was...

07/06/2026

AITAH for telling my dad and stepmother I agree with my mom that my stepmother is never going to be mine or my siblings real parent?

My parents are divorced and it was really bitter. My dad had issues with alcohol when I (16f) was little so my mom had primary custody of me and my siblings (all 18+ now). Dad got sober and was able to get 50-50 custody eventually. He married my stepmother when I was 7. The adults used to fight a lot. It was sometimes kept from us but we still knew.

My mom sued for primary custody again and lost. My dad sued after my mom did and he lost too. We got interviewed twice (two other times) over the custody dispute.

There were lots of issues going on. I don't know them all and don't know if I'll ever know. But I know a big part of it was my mom didn't want my stepmother being in a mom role to me or my siblings and she used to tell them she wasn't a real parent so she had no right to be involved with our school or doctors and it was dad's job to do that stuff.

My dad didn't like that mom left him over his drinking and when dad thought we were out of the way he'd vent to his family. Me and my siblings heard. When my stepmother was pregnant dad wanted all the old baby stuff from us and he hated mom for saying no. He felt like we should all be able to use the same stuff and apparently didn't like mom's attitude about his and my stepmother's kid. They have more than one together btw.

When I was 12 there was a big fight between my mom and stepmother. It happened in front of...

07/06/2026

AITAH for avoiding being at home every day because I want to see my sister as little as possible since we share a room?

My parents have five kids. Me (16f), Ellie (14f), Milo (11m), Jamie (9m) and Toby (6m). Toby has special needs so our parents converted the guest bedroom into a bedroom just for him since he'd keep the boys awake at night. Me and Ellie have pretty much always shared and we never got along that great so it was tough. But the older we get the more I can't stand her.

Ellie talks over people a lot, she has no respect for other people's things and she gets mad when you don't let her "borrow" something and she'll retaliate by breaking it or stealing it. It's always "borrow" too because she misplaces stuff all the time or she's so reckless it gets broken and then you don't get it back. We have physically fought each other over stuff she wanted that was mine that I refused to let her use. She even spat in my face once because I wouldn't let her wear one of my dresses that was a special present from grandma. We also fight because she doesn't like my taste in music and she complains that I taint our room with it when she's not there. I always tell her it's my room too but she doesn't care.

Things get physical enough between us that we've both been grounded over it. I got double grounded then for saying I didn't want to share a room with her anymore because I can't stand her. My parents told me that's not how mature people act and I don't get to make demands when I don't pay their bills. After my parents came down hard on me for complaining about it I decided...

06/06/2026

WIBTAH if I a fake name for my unborn daughter with my sister?

My sister and I are fraternal twins and we're both 28. We ended up pregnant at the same time (her a little before me) and my sister has run with this idea that we need to name our babies matching or similar names and that we should share our pregnancies with each other and not with my husband/her boyfriend. For 6 or 7 weeks she was pushing for me to use the names Edmund or Ethel for a boy or a girl because she was planning to use Edward or Mabel. She thought Edmund and Edward sounded handsome together and Ethel and Mabel sounded so cute and granny-chic.

Ethel and Edmund would never be contenders for our baby name regardless of if I wanted my sister and I to choose similar names for our kids. And before someone asks she was of the belief that our babies would be the same s__ at that point. Eventually she did say we should do Rosemary and Fredrick if we had one of each but again neither name was mine and my husband's taste.

I told my sister I wasn't going to match up my baby's name to hers and I was going to choose a name with my husband aka the father of my child. She wasn't happy about it so then she started asking what names we were considering/choosing. She has made it her mission to find out and asks at least once a day even when I don't see her. The text always comes around the same time and any additional texts asking will be scattered throughout the day or she'll call or DM me somewhere asking. But we don't want her to...

06/06/2026

AITA for Refusing to Lend My Sister More Money Until She Pays Back What She Owes Me?

I (32F) am still so frustrated over this, and honestly, I need some outside perspective. Five years ago, my sister (30F) got married and was struggling financially at the time. I stepped in to help and ended up covering a big chunk of her wedding costs — the venue deposit, catering, and decorations. We agreed she’d pay me back once she got on her feet, and I trusted her.

But every time I brought it up over the years, she’d brush it off with things like, “Don’t worry about it,” or “You were such a big help, just think of it as my gift from you!” I didn’t want to start family drama, so I let it slide… but it’s always bothered me.

Fast forward to last week she calls asking if I can help her with a down payment for a new house. The amount she needs? Pretty much the same as what she still owes me.

I told her I’d be willing to help, but only after she pays me back for the wedding first. She got defensive immediately, saying it’s been “so long” and that I’m being unfair for holding it over her head. She insists she thought I had just gifted her the money.

Now she’s not speaking to me, and even my parents are trying to convince me to “let it go for the sake of peace.” But it feels like she’s been taking advantage of my kindness for years, and I’m tired of pretending it’s fine.

So AITA for expecting her to pay me back after all this time, or is she just avoiding accountability?

06/06/2026

AITAH - Towed someone from my assigned spot?

Background: I work 2nd shift and get home around midnight every weekday. I’m the only 2nd shift worker in the building. I make sure to be super quiet when I come in and don’t even lock my car with my key fob but instead with the inside locks so I don’t wake anyone up. Everyone has a garage or an assigned parking spot. My car is ALWAYS in my parking spot during the week until 1100 at the earliest typically I leave for work around 1300.

Last night I got home from work at Midnight on the dot. As soon as I pulled in I saw someone in my spot. I pulled up behind them, checked for a parking permit (there wasn’t one), and took pictures of the vehicle. I called non-emergency PD to see who handled assigned parking violations. They informed me I could choose any tow company I wanted since my lease states the spot is mine, but doesn’t specify which company to use. They also offered to send an officer to give the person in my spot a ticket on top of being towed.

I chose a tow company and they arrived around 0030. I provided all the information they needed to prove the spot was mine and they towed the car. I had to park on the street since my spot was occupied, the only open spot was a Handicap spot, and the parking lot next to my building is “No Parking 0200-0600.” I did leave a note on the exit door informing the person who took my spot which company I chose. I also made note that I work night shift so that’s why my spot was empty...

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