03/05/2024
Lately, my Facebook feed has been dominated by wedding proposals. The typical scenario: a young man in a public space, courageously kneeling, tightly grasping his ticket to the woman's heart, while uttering the infamous line, "Will you marry me?" What a sight! Most of the time, about 90% of the time, the girl will respond with a resounding yes. The place echoes with sounds of applause and pictures of smiles subsequently. I don't mean to be a pessimist, but what if the woman rejects the proposal and walks away? Who will be the antagonist of this love story? Is it the woman who has all the wits to decide whether or not she's into it? Or is it the brave young man who's ready to commit himself to the love of his life? This led me to realize that if I were to propose, I would like to do it privately. Just the two of us. No one else. Why? So that I won't put a pinch of pressure on the woman I love. So that she will think it through. So that she will mean what she says and not what the situation dictates. That's how I envision it. Inevitably, many will perceive this as anti-romantic, but that's just my perspective..
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