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08/11/2025

I'm too tired to be angry, but being silent feels heavier than being enraged.

08/11/2025

I grew up reading people before they even spoke.
Learning moods by footsteps, tones, and silence. Always observing, always studying. It's a blessing and a curse, but it taught me how to see people deeper than their words.

04/10/2025

Psychology says, that if there's one person who keeps on coming back to you with an unchanged behavior, it is a kind of a person who's faking their love towards you. In fact, they don't miss you for being you, they just miss the idea of how you are able to make them feel appreciated, valued, given importance and make them whole. It's an emotional dependency that talks. And if it happens to vanish—their source of validation, they'll come back at you not because they love you, but because they seek a sense of security and comfort that you constantly give.

04/10/2025

Being in a relationship has many things to consider—the pain, the laughter, the ups and downs, and fears. We grew up knowing that nothing is more painful than being cheated on, but it doesn't reveal the toxic traits residing in the emotional state of a person. One of the realizations I have these past few years—that pain can be bearable. If we have been cheated on, it's okay, at least we do have valid reasons to leave them at once. But reality hits stronger and deeper as we stay a little longer than we should in a relationship. Having a partner who has low emotional intelligence is very much distressful. It is slowly killing the bond, weakening the love, disrupting the growth, hindering the comprehension, and misleading the direction as it gets longer—just because we're imprisoned by the toxic traits they possess. And we can do nothing but still choose to stay because we love the person. The conscience keeps knocking in our hearts before we think of leaving them—for the reason that we are responsible for their feelings and emotions because we ought to share the same pain, suffering and challenges as we venture life around us. We may be imperfect most of the time, but at least we are able to show accountability for our behavior and what it can do to our relationship, rather than standing on our own ground, being naturally toxic. If you happen to cross paths with these kinds of people, may you never neglect nor ignore the responsibility and accountability. Show them the love that is supposed to acknowledge their toxic traits. The love that can melt their toxicity. The love that can nurture them—helping, making them change responsibly. In the end, conscience and regrets will never haunt you down for the rest of your life when mischance will come and play to happen.

09/08/2025

Be careful loving a woman with low emotional intelligence

It's draining - not because you love too much, but because you're constantly left feeling unseen.

You try to express your feelings, but she doesn't seem to understand. It leads to frustration, silence, or conflict. And over time, you start to feel like your emotions don't matter.

You're tired of repeating yourself. Tired of explaining the same emotional truths, like how her words, her tone, or her absence affect you.

Love shouldn't feel like you're teaching someone how to care. You deserve a connection that understands you, not just hear you.

24/06/2025

I bumped into the notion "why kind people often get used to?" Being there for other people because it's what your heart speaks and desires. The good intentions were there, the willingness, the purity and soul. However, they end up being used, manipulated, controlled, taken advantage of, and despised. The one who offers kindness is much more precious than who offers luxurious things in life, it's the thing money can't buy and it is even more expensive when it comes in the most sincere way. But what is it with you people? You still didn't get that kindness is rare nowadays. You can't just get it where you want—just like trust, you have to earn it. Kindness was supposed to be acknowledged in order to get more of it and make it grow in oneself. Kindness was supposed to be a two-way process, not just to receive it but to give also. It's not just you only want to receive it from people. No! In that way you exhaust them, consume them and lead them to depletion. But you know which the saddest and worst parts are? When you happen to leave them when they can no longer offer you the kindness just like what you are accustomed to. And leaving them because the monster they've kept inside for the long time with their kindness has awakened. The worst nightmare a kind person could have is when they run out of kindness and slowly become a different person that's hard to handle. A person who once has the pure and sincere kindness has turned into a person who got easily irritated, disgusted, disappointed and annoyed—just all because the kindness they have has not been acknowledged, respected and valued.

05/06/2025

It's painful to realize that her expectation of effort stems from knowing your financial limitations. The weight of her expectation, resting solely on your effort, is heavy.

26/05/2025

Being okay has two different sides. Being okay even if it wasn't and being okay because you have to. It's okay not to be okay, but it doesn't work most of the time. I always caught myself ranting my unsaid feelings through words because it's one of the ways I get to be okay. And here's one of today's courses. I have just realized that money can buy happiness-it could be through attention, care and concern. In my case, I was unfortunate to have nothing to offer in the family table. All I can do for now is to do house chores just to get the attention of everyone. It was never a big deal for me doing those things because I used to, but then suddenly, it became one. It's hard to compete and prove yourself that you're worthy of those attentions and concerns when you don't have the means to offer. I've always been begging for it-attention, love, and freedom to rest. I have been a very good son, I don't drink, I don't smoke and don't go out to party with friends. I have been following all those pressuring hopes that were put on my shoulder, but no one dared to check on me. "Are you okay?, How's school? Are you tired?" All they just did was to put more pressure on me. I am not a retirement plan, I am but a lonely son hoping for equal care. Is it because I don't have a job and my brother has? Or is it because I'm the eldest and as you see me being responsible means that I don't need those things from you? Or was it the love that has been poured and given unequally? I'm tired of all of those unequal treatments. I'm dying and crying myself to sleep just to get rid of it all out thinking I was wrong and you were right. I can never complain about that in front of you, because I stand for nothing and have nothing to offer. Was me being good made you happy and proud? Or would it be fun to do the same-drinking, smoking and outgoing, ruining my life just to get your attention in a way that I don't even want. I love them, but there's always a sigh, pain, and envy within me.

11/03/2025

A simple hug can make an enormous weary vanish.
A simple hug can make you feel your worth.
A simple hug can melt sullenness.
A simple hug can tell you that you matter.
A simple hug can relieve stress.
A simple hug can make you realize you've done a lot today.
A simple hug can be a food for an exhausted body.
A simple hug can loosen up tight emotions.
A simple hug can light up extreme sadness

A simple hug can be so simple but impactful. It doesn't depend where you can get it or to whom it may come from, as long as you receive one, cherish it for it takes a lot of courage. If you were being offered, please do the same too for you don't know what it can do to people, especially to people who badly need it.

A simple hug is a simple act that doesn't require money, thorough analysis, oriented processes, vast amount of time or what so ever. It is a simple act and a reminder also to be generous for the things you may have to offer to someone willingly and wholeheartedly.

A simple hug can be a way of checking people's untold feelings and hidden emotions. Remember that the main goal is not to live forever, but to create and do something that will.

20/02/2025

FAREWELL MY LOVE...

A SIMPLE REMINDER THAT WE SHOULD LET THINGS FOLDS AS THEY SHOULD.

NO MORE PAIN, NO MORE CRYING, NO MORE SLEEPLESS NIGHTS OF OVERTHINKING.

ALL THERE'S LEFT WERE MEMORIES THAT WILL GAUGE OUR SENTIMENTS TOWARDS EACH OTHER.

GRATEFUL FOR ALL THOSE YEARS. WE MAY HAVE FORCED EVERYTHING WE WANTED TO, DID OUR BEST AS WE COULD, YET WE DIDN'T SUCCEED. BUT IT'S GOD'S WAY OF ENLIGHTENMENT FOR US, TO GROW IN OUR SEPARATE WAYS. THAT EVERYTHING HAS HAPPENED FOR A SPECIFIC AND INEVITABLE PURPOSES AND REASONS.

19/02/2025

Breaking up was never my first choice to resolve issues or avoid fights. I’ve always tried to communicate and understand, wanting to resolve conflicts quickly instead of letting them create distance between us. But now, if breaking up means I can find peace and relieve my stress, I won’t hesitate.

If you ever want to go back to your past, I’ll open the door and let you go. I won’t hold you back from what you desire. I haven’t cheated, and I’m not a cheater, I never was. It hurts that you’ve hidden white lies from me instead of considering my feelings. While I’ve spent sleepless nights in pain, you seemed more concerned about your little lies than my suffering.

I’ve sincerely tried to communicate with you, asking you permission but when you refused to listen, I respected your choice. I wanted to resolve my past issues so that I can focus on you, but I got lost in my love for you, even when you were dishonest. For me, It’s better to be open, even if it’s uncomfortable, than to hide things that matter.

For nearly three years, I've shown you love, kindness, and patience, but it feels like you’ve taken it for granted. Why haven’t you learned from your mistakes? I’ve always been considerate of your flaws because I care about you, hoping to help you change. I don’t want to change who you are, just your attitude. There have been great moments that were together, and I really treasure those, but I can’t ignore the red flags any longer.

If you still love your ex, that’s your choice, but don’t take advantage of my sincere love. You’re free to reach out to him, but I won’t be your backup. It seems like you can’t treat me with the same respect and love because I’m not him.

No matter how long we stay together, if I’m not the one you truly want, I can never be enough for you. It hurts deeply, but I’ll accept it and let things unfold as they should.

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