23/02/2025
Father seeks answers to seafarer son missing onboard car carrier
February 4, 2025
Maritime News
By Liz Lagniton
For Elias Bobiles Jr., 62, every day since December 5, 2024 has been a painful waiting game. His 28-year-old seafarer son, Ralph Anthony Bobiles, a deck cadet on the Panama-flagged vessel Prestige Ace, vanished without a trace while the ship was en-route to Baltimore, U.S. from Mexico, transporting high-end cars.
Two months later, Elias, also a village captain in San Roque, Tabaco City, continues to seek answers. Ralphâs agency, Parola Maritime Agency, has yet to provide a concrete investigation report, and authorities in Panama and the United States have not released any findings.
Frustrated and heartbroken, Elias is now fighting for justice, determined to uncover the truth behind his youngest sonâs disappearance.
Worst nightmare
In an interview with Maritime Fairtrade, Elias recalled the last conversation he had with Ralph, just a day before his disappearance.
âOn December 4, my son called me via video and said, âPapa, Iâll be in the Philippines before Christmas because my contract is ending. And I have good news â Iâve been promoted from cadet to ordinary seaman,ââ Elias recounted in Filipino.
But the anticipated homecoming never happened. Instead, on the morning of December 6, Elias received a call from Ralphâs wife, crying and barely able to speak. When he rushed to their home, he learned that Ralph was missing. His sonâs agency had delivered the news, but crucial details were absent.
âWhatâs really disheartening is that the agency seems to be guessing everything. They donât care about my sonâs life; what matters to them is their companyâs income,â Elias said, his disappointment evident in his voice during the interview.
Unanswered questions
Elias quickly realized there were inconsistencies surrounding his sonâs disappearance.
âThey gave me the crew list when I asked for it. The first list, from Veracruz port in Mexico, had 22 names. But when I requested the lists from the four ports where the ship docked â Baltimore, Brunswick (Georgia), Jacksonville, and Veracruz â it was down to 21. That means my son was no longer on it,â he said.
âThe final list only had 21 crew members. So, it means the captain didnât immediately report the missing crew member,â Elias stressed.
He said that maritime agency executives explained why no missing person report was made. âThe vice president of Parola told me that the captain didnât report a missing crew member because it would delay the delivery of luxury cars to the four ports,â he said in disbelief. âTo them, business is more important than human life.â
âI was so disappointed by their view that business takes priority over seafarers. Without seafarers, they wouldnât have income. They should be valuing these cases more,â Elias said.
His frustration grew when, during a December 23 Zoom meeting with agency representatives, the topic of insurance was already raised.
âI told them, âWhy are we talking about insurance? That means youâve already concluded something. I wanted a real investigation.ââ
The grieving father stressed that his familyâs main priority is justice, not financial compensation.
He also shared he got a letter from the agencyâs president on December 13 saying an investigation would be conducted when the ship reached Baltimore. But no such investigation ever took place, he said.
According to Elias, the agency never reported the missing crew member to the U.S. Coast Guard. âTo this day, thereâs still no proper report for my family,â he said.
âThat is why it pains us. I raised my son well, with the fear of God, gave him a good education, and he now has a family of his own. Now, all his dreams have been shattered,â Elias added.
The 28-year-old Filipino seafarer, Ralph Anthony Bobiles, has been missing since December 5, 2024, while his ship was sailing through the Gulf of Mexico.
Suspicious behavior from crew members
A report from the Mexican government, not the maritime agency, eventually provided Elias with some details. The statement said that on December 5, the crew held a toolbox meeting at 6.45 am to assign tasks for the day.
Elias recounted that his son worked alongside ordinary seaman Michael Layao as they began their duties aboard the 200-meter car carrier transporting luxury vehicles. Around 10 am, Ralph and Michael took a 15-minute snack break. During this break, Michael saw Ralph heading toward his cabin.
âOne of them, Michael, claimed that during their 10.00 am break on December 5, he saw my son go to his cabin. If thatâs the case, then he must have followed my son because the cabin was far from the workplace where he was assigned. How could he give that statement if he wasnât following my son?â Elias asked.
According to Michaelâs statement, at 10.20 am, he knocked on Ralphâs cabin, but no one answered. âHe just assumed my son had returned to work,â Elias said.
But the timeline makes no sense to Elias. âThese men all have radios. Why didnât they call my son? At 12.00 pm during lunch break, no one noticed he was missing? Then at 1.00 pm, when work resumed, why didnât they check?â
Even more troubling, Elias noticed the crewâs silence. âMy sonâs three best friends, (including Michael) â two seamen and the bosun â unfriended my daughter-in-law on social media. Why would they do that if they had nothing to hide?â he asked.
A possible cover-up?
Elias is convinced that foul play or negligence was involved, as the shipâs officers failed to report his sonâs disappearance until 5.05 pm, nearly seven hours after Ralph was last seen.
âItâs possible. Of the 21 crew members left, only one was foreign (a Korean), and the rest were Filipinos. All of them are persons of interest, potential witnesses,â he said.
âMy son went missing at 10.20 am, and they only reported him missing at 5.05 pm. Thatâs almost seven hours! By then, the ship had traveled so far. The Gulf of Mexico is rough (at night). How could they have rescued him then?â
Elias believes this critical delay could have made a difference in finding Ralph.
âAnd now, the (shipowner) wonât even allow me to go to America to retrieve my sonâs belongings. Iâve tried four times, and they keep refusing. I asked the maritime agencyâs lawyer, âWhat are you hiding? Why donât you want me to go?ââ he asked.
According to Overseas Workers Welfare Administrationâs chief, Arnel Ignacio, the Mexican government conducted a search and rescue operation, but it was called off after 72 hours with no results.
Ralphâs relationships with the crew
When asked if Ralph had enemies among his crewmates, Elias found it hard to believe he did.
âYou donât get promoted if you have bad relationships with other crew members. Before you get promoted, the captain would ask all the crew, âHow is Cadet Bobiles doing?â If my son had problems with others, he wouldnât have been promoted. He always told me, âPapa, everythingâs okay. I have no problems with them.ââ
Elias also emphasized that there was no indication his son would have committed su***de. âIâm sure there was foul play involved.â
A family in pain
While Elias fights for justice, Ralphâs wife and three young children aged two, seven, and eight are struggling to cope.
âThe first two weeks were the worst for my daughter-in-law. She didnât want to eat or talk. My grandkids also keep asking me, âPapa, whereâs Daddy?â I tell them heâll be home soon,â Elias said.
In January, Elias appealed to President Ferdinand Marcos Jr. for assistance in finding his missing son. He also called on concerned government agencies and offices to help expedite the investigation.
âMy son is more than just a seafarer, heâs the heartbeat of our family, a devoted son, brother, husband and father of three precious children waiting for their dad to bring home presents last Christmas,â he said in his earlier post on social media.
A senate inquiry
Meanwhile, Senator Raffy Tulfo, who recently interviewed Elias on his TV program when the latter approached him for help, has ordered a thorough investigation into Ralphâs case.
The senator promised to immediately launch a senate investigation to summon the officials of the agency, the shipowner, and the Maritime Industry Authority. The investigation will examine the incident and review standard procedures for addressing the increasing cases of missing Filipino seafarers.
âThe captain of the Prestige Ace will also be summoned once heâs back in the Philippines, and theyâll invite all the crew members,â Elias revealed.
Tulfo also recommended that the Department of Migrant Workers temporarily suspend Ralphâs agencyâs license until the investigation is completed.
âIâm confident someone will speak up,â Elias said, hoping the questions surrounding his sonâs disappearance will finally be answered.
His only wish now is to see a real investigation and to finally be allowed to go to America to retrieve his sonâs belongings.
âI just want justice for my son,â the grieving father concluded.
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ÂŠď¸ Ralph Bobiles/Elias Bobiles