Oba Ji

23/09/2026

There is a man I know who has lived in America for many years. He raised his children there. They went to school there, made their friends there, and grew up knowing America as home in a way their father never could.

Sometimes, he talks about this with a little sadness.

He wonders if his children will ever understand what Nigeria means to him.

The last time they visited, they were little. They enjoyed the food, met relatives and saw the places he grew up. But he said clearly that they couldn't fit in, and they never talked about Nigeria as home.

Yet this man keeps buying land in his village.

I have often wondered why. Why keep buying pieces of a place you left so many years ago?

Then I thought about what happens when people return home after being away for a long time.

It is rarely one big thing. It is the small things.

Someone calls you by the childhood name nobody uses anymore. An old friend takes you down a road you used to walk as a child. Someone cooks a meal you had forgotten you missed.

You sit outside in the evening, listening to familiar voices, and suddenly twenty years does not feel like twenty years.

For a moment, the place remembers you.

Maybe that is why the man keeps buying land.

Because you can leave home at twenty and return at fifty, and there will still be people who remember the child you were.

Perhaps home is simply the place that never forgets you.

23/09/2026

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23/09/2026

Before many Nigerians knew Onyeka Onwenu as the woman behind “One Love,” she had already lived several lives.

She was born in Obosi in 1952 and grew up largely in Port Harcourt but her family hailed from Arondizuogu in Ideato North Local Government Area of Imo State.. Her father died in a motor accident when she was only four, leaving her mother to raise five children. Her mother, Lillian, was a teacher and a strong presence in her children's lives, insisting that widowhood would not become the limit of what they could achieve.

After the war, Onyeka went to the United States. She studied International Relations and Communication at Wellesley College, later earned a master's degree in Media Studies in New York, and worked for the United Nations.

Then she came home.

In 1980, during her NYSC service, she joined the Nigerian Television Authority. She became a journalist and presenter, and in 1984 wrote and presented *Nigeria: A Squandering of Riches*, a BBC/NTA documentary that took her across the country speaking with people from different walks of life.

But journalism was not where her story ended.

She was also making music. Her songs carried Igbo rhythms, highlife, pop and other influences, and songs such as “One Love,” “Ekwe” and “You and I” became part of the Nigerian soundscape.

Then came acting. She appeared in films including *Half of a Yellow Sun* and *Lionheart*, bringing the same presence she had carried from television and music into another medium.

And she kept going.

What fascinates me about Onyeka Onwenu is not simply how many things she did. It is that she never seemed willing to let one achievement become the boundary of her life.

Journalist. Singer. Actress. Writer. Public servant. Cultural voice.

She kept entering new rooms and finding a way to belong there without leaving the woman she had been behind.

Perhaps that is why her story feels bigger than a career.

Some people build a life by becoming very good at one thing.

Others spend their lives discovering how much they can become.

Onyeka Onwenu belonged to the second kind.

And perhaps that is the part of her story worth remembering most.

23/09/2026

A trader can lose everything in Onitsha without owing a bank a kobo. Sometimes, all it takes is for other traders to stop believing him.

Imagine handing someone ₦2 million in cash while he writes your order on the back of a torn carton. No lawyer is present. No elaborate contract. Just a transaction built on the belief that both of you understand what your word is worth.

That belief is not casual.

Inside Onitsha Main Market, traders belong to associations that do far more than collect dues. They create rules, settle disputes and protect the relationships that allow thousands of businesses to function side by side.

When a serious disagreement happens, the people involved may take it to their line chairman. The room may have nothing that resembles a courtroom, but the decision can carry enormous weight.

Because a trader's greatest asset is often not the goods in his shop.

It is his name.

Once people believe you cannot be trusted, customers hesitate. Other traders become careful. Credit disappears. Doors that were once open begin to close.

That is what makes the market's system so human.

Long before contracts can protect a business, people have always understood something simpler: **a reputation is a kind of capital.**

And sometimes, losing it is the most expensive debt a person can owe.

23/09/2026

There is a man in my village I have known for years. Almost everyone knows him too, and if you asked people to describe him, one of the first words you would probably hear is “illiterate.”

He did not go far in school. He has never had the kind of education we usually point to when we want to call someone knowledgeable. He lives a very ordinary life, and there is nothing about him that immediately suggests that he carries an unusual amount of knowledge.

But I have always been fascinated by one thing about him.

He remembers.

I have watched him identify families I barely know and tell me where they came from. He can stand beside an old compound and tell you who lived there before, who married into the family, and how the land came to belong to them. He knows which road was once a footpath. He remembers houses that no longer exist and people whose names have almost disappeared from everyday conversation.

Once you start asking him questions, you realize how much he has been carrying all these years.

He remembers why an old boundary was respected. He knows the history behind certain family names. He remembers who left the village, who returned, and the small events that connected one family to another.

What gets me is the way he tells these stories.

There is no sense that he is performing knowledge. He is not trying to impress anyone. To him, these are simply things he knows because he was here. He watched. He listened. He lived long enough to see things change.

And every time I hear him explain something I thought I understood, I find myself rethinking what we mean when we call someone educated.

We have become accustomed to measuring knowledge with certificates, degrees and polished speech. But this man has spent his life learning something no classroom could have taught him in quite the same way.

He learned his community.

He knows the people behind the houses, the stories behind the names and the reasons behind things we now take for granted.

That is what wows me about him.

The man many people would casually call an illiterate is, in his own way, an archive.

And it makes me wonder how many people like him exist in our villages, quietly carrying pieces of our history without ever realizing that one day, when they are gone, the knowledge they carry may disappear with them.

Sometimes, the person we think has little to teach us is the person who has been watching the longest.

23/09/2026

Our ancestors understood something about life that is easy to forget when everything begins demanding our attention at once. That's why the coined the sentence: “Onye ụlọ ya na-agba ọkụ anaghị achụ oke.” (Someone whose house is on fire does not chase a rat.)

They knew that to chase the rat is important. The rat may be stealing food, damaging things, or hiding somewhere in the house. But when the house catches fire, the chasing the rat has to wait.

There is a quiet discipline in that wisdom.

Not every problem that appears before you deserves your attention at the same time.

A mother may have a hundred things to do in the house, but when her child falls seriously ill, the unfinished cooking can wait.

A trader may have several customers to attend to, but when the person beside him suddenly collapses, business can wait.

A husband and wife may have many small disagreements, but when the family is going through something serious, proving who was right about yesterday's argument may not matter anymore.

Yet life has a way of making the rat easier to notice than the fire.

The small irritation is immediate. The bigger problem may require courage.

So we spend precious energy correcting little things while something more important is quietly getting worse.

This is why the proverb has lasted.

It does not tell us that the rat does not matter. It teaches us something more difficult:

Know what matters now.

Some things must be handled immediately. Some things can wait until tomorrow. And wisdom is sometimes nothing more complicated than knowing the difference.

Onye ụlọ ya na-agba ọkụ anaghị achụ oke.

When the fire is out, there will still be time for the rat.

23/09/2026

Let the eagle perch. Let the kite perch. One day, both will leave the tree. And the tree will still be standing.

There is something almost unsettling about the wisdom in “Mbiri ka m biri.”

Live and let others live.

Oliver De Coque made the words popular in song, but the thought behind them is much older.

Our ancestors had already said it: “Egbe belu, Ugo belu; nke si ibe ya ebena, ka nku kwa ya.” (Let the eagle perch, and let the kite perch. Whoever says the other must not perch, let his wing break.)

Think about that for a moment.

The eagle has its place. The kite has its place. There is room in the sky for both. Yet so much of human life is spent trying to take the space that belongs to someone else.

We fight over money. Land. Titles. Recognition. Power. Who is ahead. Who is more important. Who deserves more. Sometimes we spend years trying to pull another person down, as though life has given us a permanent lease on this earth.

But none of us is staying here.

The house we fought over will outlive us. The money we do everything to gather will remain. The position we thought made us important will eventually belong to somebody else. Even our names, if nobody remembers to speak them, can disappear.

So what exactly are we fighting so hard to possess?

Perhaps “Mbiri ka m biri” carries a deeper wisdom than simply telling us to be peaceful. It reminds us that there is enough room for another person to exist without diminishing our own existence.

You can rise without pushing somebody down. You can prosper without wishing another person to fail. You can have your place without denying someone else theirs. Because in the end, we are all only passing through.

Let the eagle perch. Let the kite perch. One day, both will leave the tree. And the tree will still be standing.

22/09/2026

At an Igbo traditional wedding, there is a moment when the whole crowd seems to disappear.

The bride carries a cup of w**e and walks through the people, looking for her husband. Everyone watches because the next few seconds can say more than a long speech ever could.

What if she hands the w**e to the wrong man?

If it is an honest mistake, the music stops. The elders intervene, the bride is taken aside, and once everything is clarified, she is given the w**e again to find her groom.

But if the wrong man drinks from the cup, the matter becomes much more serious. The ceremony is paused while the elders meet to resolve what has happened. In Igbo tradition, marriage is not simply between two people. Two families are being joined.

And there is a deeper possibility.

A woman who does not want the man chosen for her could deliberately refuse to give him the w**e. She could walk past him and place the cup in the hands of the man she has chosen.

That is what makes this small ritual so powerful.

The w**e is not merely part of the ceremony. It can become a public expression of choice, witnessed by everyone who matters.

22/09/2026

Long before Okey Ezeibe became one of the prominent Igbo businessmen in Lagos, he was simply a young man from Awgbu trying to understand the world of business.

He entered private business and import trade early. And like many people who build their lives through trade, he learned by doing.

He learned how goods moved. How relationships worked. How people built trust. And perhaps, more importantly, how one person's opportunity could create an opportunity for another.

As his business grew, so did the things he became involved in.

He played a foundational role in the Balogun Business Association in Lagos, becoming its founding president and later chairman of its Board of Incorporated Trustees.

He moved beyond merchant trading and importation into manufacturing, automobiles, real estate, hospitality and financial services.

But his story was never simply about how many businesses he could build.

At some point, he began thinking about the people around him. He saw Igbo traders building their lives in Lagos and understood that they needed more than individual businesses. They needed spaces and institutions that could help many people grow. That thinking was part of what led to the idea of Trade Fair Market.

And perhaps that tells us something about the man.

Chief Ezeibe did not stop growing when his own business began to succeed. He kept looking at the world around him and asking what else could be built.

A company. A market. An institution. A place where other people could also find room to build their own lives.

That may be one of the quieter forms of success. Not simply becoming a successful businessman. But becoming the kind of businessman whose ideas create opportunities beyond himself.

And perhaps that is what makes a life in business worth remembering.

Not only what a man accumulated... But what his imagination made possible for other people.

22/09/2026

She walked into that hospital carrying a cooler in one hand, a baby on her back, and about forty bottles of tigernut drink and zobo.

She was not a businesswoman yet. She was a new mother who had lost her salary and needed to find a way to earn money without leaving her baby behind.

In 2020, Catherine Uzoamaka Ifeonu, known as Ava, had been working a 9–5 job in Awka. After marriage, she relocated to Onitsha and became pregnant. The daily journey between Onitsha and Awka eventually became too difficult, so she resigned.

Then the baby came.

So did the bills.

Ava had always valued her independence, but she could not afford childcare and could not return to another job. What she had was the ability to make tigernut drink and zobo, a little determination, and a need to make something work.

So she made the drinks, filled her biggest cooler, strapped her baby to her back and went to a hospital where pregnant women came for antenatal care.

They bought.

For a few hours, it looked like the beginning of something.

Then the hospital management saw her on CCTV.

She had no permission to sell there.

She was asked to leave.

She left crying.

But the story did not end there.

She took the remaining drinks to former colleagues. One of them noticed something Ava had done almost casually: she had already created a logo and put stickers on her bottles.

That small detail mattered.

The colleague encouraged her to take the business online.

And slowly, people began to notice.

There were days she almost stopped. There were pregnancies, exhaustion, sleepless nights, painful hands from squeezing tigernut through cheesecloth, and batches of products that sometimes spoiled after hours of work.

But something else was happening.

A customer became a friend and eventually helped her store drinks in her freezer, lent her a juicer and even bought a new freezer when hers broke down.

Someone she had never met recommended her to a stranger in Onitsha Main Market, leading to an order for forty litres of tigernut drink.

Another customer could not remember the name of her brand months after buying from her at Oba Ji Festival. But she remembered the product well enough to search for it and find her again.

That is how Blend By Ava grew.

Not from a large investment.

From a mother trying to provide.

From a cooler.

From persistence.

And, somewhere along the way, from the people who saw what she was building and decided to carry a little of it with her.

Sometimes a business begins because someone needs money.

But if you keep showing up, it can become something much bigger than the reason you started.