For Youth on Life, Love & Sex

13/10/2024

15/06/2024

Never force a relationship.

Sometimes it's better to move on, than to hold on to a person who doesn't understand who you truly are. Unfortunately there will be times where your absence will teach you what your presence cannot.

You need to stop breaking your own heart in trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work to begin with.

You can't force someone to genuinely care about you.

You can't force someone to be faithful to you.

You can't force someone to be the person you need
them to be.

The truth is, sometimes the person you want the most is the same person you would be best without.

You have got to understand some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay.

Everything that you do to show love, you have to be
careful, not to lose yourself by trying to fix what should never been there in the first place. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to reciprocate the love you give to them.

I know it's hard when you meet someone and your heart feels, that's the person you could spend an eternity with, and you start to accept that they are not that person you thought they needed to be.

And no matter how many times you cry yourself to sleep at night, you will eventually heal from your previous relationship and find the one you have always longed for. Your future will now bring an understanding of why things didn't work out in your previous relationships.

One thing I have learned throughout the years, is “It is better to be single than to be in a relationship settling for less.”

If they see you as an option, then they don't deserve to be a priority in your life.

Take my advice and never chase someone who's not chasing you.

13/06/2024

THE ESSENCE OF FORGIVENESS AND LETTING GO

What are the essence of forgiveness?

Releasing the negative emotions and energy associated with a past hurt or transgression.

Giving up feelings of anger, bitterness, and resentment towards the person who hurt you.

Trying to see things from the perspective of the person who hurt you and understanding their humanity.

Showing kindness and compassion towards yourself and the person who hurt you.

Finding closure and moving on from the past, rather than dwelling on it.

Allowing yourself to heal and move forward, rather than getting stuck in the past.

Practicing self-love and self-care, and prioritizing your own well-being.

Showing mercy and grace to yourself and others, rather than judgment and condemnation.

Forgiveness is not about forgetting what happened, condoning or excusing harmful behaviour, ignoring your feelings or the hurt, reconciling with the person who hurt you (although that may happen as a result of forgiveness)

Someday you will think about the relationships you let go sour over little things and wish you had done better.

Someday you will look back and wish you had made that apology or embraced that desire to forgive.

Someday you will look back and wonder why you were strong enough to let it in but too weak to let it stay.

Someday you will wonder why you didn't choose peace over unnecessary squabbles.

Someday you will wonder why you didn't take that bold step and stand firm by it.

Someday you will wonder why you didn't love more than you hate.

Someday you will wonder why you were not less selfish.

Someday you will wonder why you believed that money is the beginning and the end.

Forgiveness is a process, and it may take time. It's important to be patient and kind to yourself as you work through your feelings and come to a place of forgiveness.

And I pray that we don’t wake up late in our lives and realize that we have really not lived at all.

22/05/2024

22/05/2024

27/06/2023

***LIFE IS A JOURNEY***

No one will remember you when you are poor or broke but everyone will remember you when you become successful , learn to take full responsibility for everything you do and do not put blame on others. No one knows tomorrow so, always pray and hope for the best. You got to dream big but remember a dream doesn't become reality through magic . It takes sweat, determination and hardwork, have confidence in yourself . Be grateful to people who help you in times of your need they are friend indeed. Thank God for the wins and believe him for greater ones .