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Dear You,Read this carefully.Many people believe that if they sacrifice enough, love enough, give enough, or endure enou...
13/07/2026

Dear You,

Read this carefully.

Many people believe that if they sacrifice enough, love enough, give enough, or endure enough, marriage will eventually become their reward. That is not how marriage works.

Sleeping with someone does not secure a wedding date.

Acting like a husband or wife before marriage does not guarantee you will become one.

Cooking, cleaning, paying bills, making endless sacrifices, or constantly proving your loyalty cannot make someone choose you.

Love should never be used as a bargaining tool.

Marriage is not a prize for good behavior.

It is not payment for your kindness.

It is not compensation for your sacrifices.

Marriage is a conscious, intentional, and lifelong decision between two people who willingly choose each other.

If someone truly wants to marry you, they will do so because they love you, value you, and see a future with you, not because they feel indebted to you.

Never lose yourself trying to earn a place in someone's life.

Never confuse overgiving with commitment.

Never mistake sacrifice for security.

Protect your heart.

Know your value.

Maintain healthy boundaries.

The right person will not marry you because they owe you.

They will marry you because they have wholeheartedly chosen you.

Always remember:

Marriage is not a reward.
Marriage is not an obligation.
Marriage is not pity.
Marriage is not payback.
Marriage is a covenant built on love, purpose, and mutual choice.

Choose someone who chooses you freely.

Signed:
Kehinde Rejoice Akinyemi
Abba's Delight: A Light That Speaks Wisdom.

10 Things That Happen When a Woman Submits in a Healthy RelationshipSubmission is often misunderstood. Biblical submissi...
01/07/2026

10 Things That Happen When a Woman Submits in a Healthy Relationship

Submission is often misunderstood. Biblical submission is not about fear, inferiority, or losing one's voice. It is a voluntary attitude of love, respect, and cooperation within a relationship where both partners honor one another. When a woman submits to a godly man who loves her as Christ loves the Church, beautiful things can happen.

1. She experiences greater peace because the relationship is built on trust.

2. She creates an atmosphere of unity instead of constant conflict.

3. She finds it easier to support and encourage her partner's vision.

4. Communication becomes more respectful and productive.

5. Her femininity flourishes as she embraces her God-given role.

6. Her husband feels respected, valued, and motivated to love her even more.

7. Decisions are made with greater harmony and cooperation.

8. The home becomes a place of stability, love, and mutual honor.

9. She becomes a powerful example of wisdom, humility, and strength.

10. God is glorified when both husband and wife faithfully live out their biblical responsibilities.

Biblical submission is never an excuse for abuse, manipulation, or oppression. It thrives only in a relationship where love, sacrifice, honor, and mutual respect are present. God's design calls husbands to love sacrificially and wives to submit willingly, creating a marriage that reflects Christ's love for His Church.

✨ Signed: Kehinde Rejoice Akinyemi
💖 Abba’s Delight — A Light That Speaks Wisdom.

Dear Bestie,I heard Daniel asked you out.I heard he told you he wanted s*x, and you told him you are keeping yourself un...
30/06/2026

Dear Bestie,

I heard Daniel asked you out.

I heard he told you he wanted s*x, and you told him you are keeping yourself until marriage.

I heard he asked if you were a virgin, and you honestly told him you were not.

Then he laughed.

He said, "You're not a virgin, yet you're talking about keeping yourself? What exactly are you keeping? You already gave your virginity to someone else. What's the point of saying no now?"

My dear, don't let those words shake you.

A person's past does not determine their future.

Abstinence is not only for virgins.

Virginity is a one-time gift, but purity is a daily choice.

God never said, "Only virgins should flee s*xual immorality." His call to holiness is for everyone, regardless of their past.

The moment you surrender your life to Christ, a new journey begins. Your past may explain where you've been, but it does not dictate where you're going.

If someone once stole, would you encourage them to keep stealing because they've already done it before?

Of course not.

So why should someone who has fallen into s*xual sin believe they must continue living in it?

When he asks, "What are you keeping?"

Tell him:

"I'm keeping my heart devoted to God."

"I'm keeping my body for the covenant of marriage."

"I'm keeping my peace, my dignity, my integrity, and my purity."

Because purity is far greater than virginity.

Virginity can only be lost once.

Purity can be chosen every single day.

Dear Bestie,

If you've lost your virginity, don't believe the lie that you've lost your value.

God still calls you to holiness.

You can still live a life of s*xual purity.

Your past is not your identity.

Your decision today is.

24/06/2026

we start today in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ

19/06/2026

we start today in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ 🙏

Happy 30th birthday to meGlory to Jesus
13/06/2026

Happy 30th birthday to me
Glory to Jesus

ladies, tell the colour of your issues. Real men don't patronise f@ke
12/06/2026

ladies, tell the colour of your issues.
Real men don't patronise f@ke

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKEA healthy marriage thrives when both husband and wife intentionally contribute to its growth.Fo...
11/06/2026

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE

A healthy marriage thrives when both husband and wife intentionally contribute to its growth.

For wives:

1. Humility strengthens love and understanding.

2. Respect creates an atmosphere of honor.

3. Trustworthiness builds confidence and security.

4. Hospitality makes a home welcoming.

5. Friendliness deepens companionship.

6. Cheerfulness brings joy during difficult seasons.

7. Appreciation encourages generosity and affection.

8. Understanding promotes healthy communication.

9. Peacefulness creates emotional safety.

10. Tenderheartedness nurtures both husband and children.

11. Patience helps resolve conflicts wisely.

12. Openness fosters transparency and trust.

13. Prayerfulness provides spiritual strength.

14. Godliness lays a solid foundation for the home.

15. Selflessness encourages unity and partnership.

16. Creativity helps couples build a better future together.

At the same time, husbands are called to love, cherish, provide for, protect, honor, support, and remain faithful to their wives.

Marriage is not about one person giving and the other taking. It is about two imperfect people choosing every day to love, serve, forgive, and grow together under God's guidance.

May God help us become better spouses and build homes filled with love, peace, wisdom, and purpose.

A good marriage is built by a good husband and a good wife, working together with God at the center.

ONE OF THE GREATEST LESSONS MY PARENTS TAUGHT ME IS CONTENTMENT.Growing up, there were many times when my parents could ...
10/06/2026

ONE OF THE GREATEST LESSONS MY PARENTS TAUGHT ME IS CONTENTMENT.

Growing up, there were many times when my parents could not afford to buy sportswear for our school sports events. While other children proudly wore newly purchased sports outfits, my mother would carefully wash and iron our regular clothes, and that was what we wore to the event.

At the time, it wasn't easy. But looking back now, I realize that those moments taught us something priceless: contentment.

We learned that not having what others have does not make you less valuable. We learned that you do not have to compete with everyone. We learned that you can still show up confidently with what you have and stand out.

Three years ago, I experienced a similar situation in church. There was a special event, and many of the youths bought a particular outfit for the occasion. I could not afford it.

I considered wearing something similar just to blend in. But something within me reminded me of the lesson I learned from my parents: "Why try to be like everyone else when you can confidently wear what you have?"

I checked my wardrobe, brought out a simple white gown, dressed neatly, and attended the event. Instead of feeling left out, I stood out.

That day reminded me that contentment is not about what you lack; it is about appreciating what you have.

Sadly, contentment is becoming rare in our generation. Many people want results without process. They want rewards without preparation. They chase what they have not worked for and end up destabilizing their lives.

If there is one lesson every parent should teach their children, it is the lesson of contentment.

Teach them that what they have today is enough for this season.

Teach them that they do not have to envy others.

Teach them that not having something does not mean they should stay away or hide themselves.

Your space is not empty because your pocket is not full.

Contentment is great gain.

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