17/01/2026
*_*My Advise to single mothers_**
__*REWRITING A STORY OF U BEING A SINGLE MOTHER_*_ 👩
We all knows being a single mother is a mistake and not a dead sentence or a taboo, some became single mothers out of promises, some by agreement, some by drunk of love, some by r**e and some by stupidity, but all of this falls under this common word ( *_MISTAKE_* ) .
_~THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE SINGLE MOTHERS OF THOSE DAYS AND THE ONES OF OUR DAYS_~
*In those days, when u are a single mother, u became rejected, u lost ur education, u lost ur peace and love from ur family members, ur friends humiliate u, u become the talk of the community, some parents even send their children to exile. But the good thing is that, those ladies never gave up, they suffered, they get engaged with handwork and small businesses, they realized their mistake and bounce back and rewrite their stories to be the strongest, the most preferable ladies, the most lovely ladies, the most faithful ladies, the most respectful, the most supportive, the most committed and hardworking women, which make many of them good wives and CEO today of their own businesses.
*But now our days, i feel bad about single mothers because the story is different even when they is no much pressure from their parents, family members, friends and communities, they now see it as normal thing, they don't care to know the pain and sacrifice in it, they don't care to rewrite the story and correct✅ their mistake, because, the parents of our time will carry the responsibility, and instead of them to learn from their mistake like the ladies of those days, they will rather start shifting the blames at people, they will start seeing their selves as irrelevant people, they will start thinking that all hope are gone, they will lost faith of getting a man that will marry them, they will think that they are not longer valued, they will never want to settle with one man, by so doing, instead of them to engage their selves in handworks or small businesses, they will drop their kid with their parents, relatives, friends and rather choose to do hook up, prostitution in full, they will lost choice in choosing men, they will never believe they can get married again, they will lost focu on their future, they will lost their morals and good characters, they will never have respect or regard for men again, they will not be supportive to any man again and they will forget that they is always a bounce back. Which is very wrong❌ they more u continue like this the more u complicate ur issues.
To all u single mothers👩out there, am here to tell u that u are valued, u can be the best out of the best, u can make a good wife. All u have to do is to put ur self together and rewrite ur story.
*Is just a little encouragement from me to u, is never to late to bounce back massively*
