16/08/2023
This day I was traveling to Nairobi and my grandpa had something to share with me.
"When I was a young vibrant and energetic young man as you're, that's the time I built my first hut,in the early 1960s.l was preparing to marry,I wonder if you gentlemen of today marry willingly or under pressure.Look at your youngest uncle he's clocking 30 next year, neither married nor planning to."
He peeped his eyes towards mine to confirm if I was keen listening,I nodded for affirmation.He coughed and spitted to the further head,he grabbed his armchair and sat comfortably on it.
"But grandpa you said you're an agent of change..."
"I'm, listen my grandson years flip unknowingly from ones hands, you won't be like this forever,roses fade away, petals dry up and fall unwillingly,every stage of humankind is seasonal.If he can't marry know and have something attached to his name, when?
Do you think this is light,if this is the change then it is better for me to withhold our ways of ages."
He forced a smile and looked at me and I nodded."A man should build a house before marriage and there after accompanied by his wife they build home." This time he laughed at me because he had confused me.
"There's a difference between house and home,a house is just an empty structure with nothing inside, it's like a hall without a chair or a table.Home is made by the woman,she is the architecture but the man play the role of an engineer just the way an engineer makes a way where seems no way, that is the role of any breathing man.He lead and other family members follow ,do you think lads of our time used to brag with tattoo and chest thumping in social media like your generation does today?
Grandson,we used to work our ass out.Some of us inherited neither cow nor soil,I pity men of today.
Ladies are not excepted as well,they are as lazy as you men are, I'm not one sided.No man in my time who bought cups,tables or chairs for the house.When a gentleman select a lady to marry,she sacrifices her ...
