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Hi, I'm Desreen, an intuitive energy healer, and wellbeing practitioner. I work with women who are seeking holistic approaches to personal growth and spiritual well-being. Through modalities like Quantum Healing, Meditation EFT and Lunar Circles, I guide my clients in nurturing their mental, emotional, and spiritual health—helping them to reclaim balance, embrace transformation, and cultivate a life of harmony. My passion lies in supporting women on their journey towards deeper self-connection and authentic living, no matter how busy their lives may be.

10/10/2026

You see my posts and say ‘I keep meaning to get to one of these.’ This is me, saying back to you “you should come”.

Moon Circle is more than a meditation class. It’s two hours, on Zoom, where you stop performing ‘fine’ and actually land in your own body for once.

Utilising the energies of the New and Full Moon, we ground. We pull oracle cards. I guide an energy transmission and a meditation. We journal, you share if you want to - or you just listen. No pressure to perform insight. No pretending you’ve got it together.

If you’re someone who holds a lot - for your family, your team, everyone except yourself - this is the one evening where that’s not required.

New Moon Circle is this Sunday. Comment the word MOON and I’ll send you everything. 💚

Most people I work with and speak to don’t have a self-worth problem. Ask them whether other people matter and they’ll s...
08/10/2026

Most people I work with and speak to don’t have a self-worth problem. Ask them whether other people matter and they’ll say yes, instantly, with examples. Ask whether they matter and there’s a pause.

That pause is the thing. It isn’t low confidence. It’s a rule you learned: your needs come after everyone else’s, and putting them first has a cost, and you’re the one footing the bill!

So you wait for permission. A quieter week. A finished to-do list. Someone telling you it’s fine to rest. Nobody gives it, because nobody is withholding it. You are.

You shouldn’t need permission to matter to yourself. You need practice, in doses small enough that the guilt stays manageable and you can learn that nothing collapses.

That’s what we build in Self-ish. Free, live, 90 minutes. Wednesday 21 Oct, 7pm.

Where in your week are you still waiting for permission?

Comment SELFISH for the link. 💚

This was created with you in mind. Let’s make the change together. Details in the comments.
07/10/2026

This was created with you in mind. Let’s make the change together. Details in the comments.

Please note the correction on the date of the class. It is 21st October and not November as the graphic previously indic...
04/10/2026

Please note the correction on the date of the class. It is 21st October and not November as the graphic previously indicated 🤦🏾‍♀️.

Take your lions mane Desreen 🫣.

My first memory of being called selfish, I was around four or five. One of my godparents had given me a bag of sweets as...
04/10/2026

My first memory of being called selfish, I was around four or five. One of my godparents had given me a bag of sweets as a treat - if you’re my age, you’ll remember; that small paper bag, a 10p mix-up, the occasional treat every kid looked forward to.

One of my older sisters asked for some. I was the youngest of five, and it was a rarity at best that I had anything that was just mine. I knew that if I shared with one, I’d have to share with all of them, and there wouldn’t be any left for me. So I said no. They’re mine.

The way my mother berated me for not sharing cemented something. The sting of that shame wove itself in.

As I got older, the word followed me. “Desreen is the selfish one,” she’d say - not caring whether I could hear. Some of my siblings would too, hearing it applied to me was normal and being young too they didn’t realise the impact it was having. Even then, little as I was, I’d think: am I selfish for wanting just something just for myself?

The more I heard it, the stronger the yes response to that question became: it’s selfish to have, want, or keep anything just for you. You must share everything - your time, your money, your things, even yourself. Give it all, or you’re not a good person.

And Desreen the people-pleaser was born.

Selfish is almost always used as an insult. Nobody wants to be called it - it hurts, especially when you know, underneath it all, that you’re a good, kind, generous person. So we do whatever it takes to never hear it again. Even if that means ending up depleted, diminished, with nothing left for ourselves.

For me, that started young. For you, it might look the same, or completely different. Either way - in my new class Self-ish on 21st October, we’re going to unpack it, reframe it, reclaim it, and make the choice to put ourselves back on our own list of priorities, with tools and a real understanding of why that matters.

I’m Desreen, The Personal Mastery Alchemist. I help high-functioning people to stop simply managing their life and start actually leading it, starting with the one thing they always leave off the list: themselves.

Comment SELFISH for the sign-up link! 💚

Whoops! The tech goblins got me earlier this week and sent an email before it was ready. 🙈 So if that landed in your inb...
03/10/2026

Whoops! The tech goblins got me earlier this week and sent an email before it was ready. 🙈 So if that landed in your inbox looking a bit unfinished, ignore it. Here’s what’s actually happening:

Self-ish - a free, live, 90-minute masterclass for the ones who always come last on their own list.

More on this to come, but for now, pop it in your diary: Wed 21 Oct, 7pm, live on Zoom.

Comment SELFISH for the link. 💚🩷

I’ve been holding LUMIS Moon Circles since January 2024.And through every single one - different moons, different season...
27/09/2026

I’ve been holding LUMIS Moon Circles since January 2024.

And through every single one - different moons, different seasons, different qualities of energy - the thing that stays with me is always the same.

It’s the difference between how people arrive and how they leave.

People arrive carrying the week. The noise, the mental load, the low-level hum of everything they’re managing. And by the end of two hours - something has genuinely shifted. And it’s often simply because they are held in something larger than the individual experience of their own overwhelm.

That’s what circle does that nothing else quite replicates.

One of my most memorable moments this year was during eclipse season. There was a thunderstorm mid-circle. And instead of it being a disruption, it became part of the work. The cosmos, quite literally, showing up. One of my subscribers told me recently that circle keeps bringing her closer and closer to her higher self. Another said it gets better every time she comes.

I believe that. Because circle isn’t static. It moves with the moon, with the season, with what the people in the room actually need.

What people often don’t expect before they come - is how immersive it is. You’re not watching someone talk about energy work. You’re in it. Held, guided, and fully supported in working with the lunar energies and with yourself. Finding parts of yourself you might not have even realised you’d lost. Releasing what’s been quietly weighing on you.

It’s simpler than people expect. And deeper.

If you’ve been curious… tonight is a beautiful place to begin.

Full Moon in Aries. The Harvest Moon. Comment MOON and I’ll send you the details to join us. 💚

25/09/2026

You’ve been waiting for permission that was never coming.

It’s subtle so you might not even realise that this is what you’ve been doing. It’s checking whether your needs are “reasonable” before you’ve even felt them. It’s framing what you want as what would be good for everyone. It’s shrinking the ask before you’ve made it.

The Full Moon in Aries rises on Saturday. And Aries at its best is simply clear. It knows what it wants before it’s sought approval. It moves from its own centre. It doesn’t negotiate with the part of you that’s learned to make itself smaller for the sake of keeping the peace.

This is also the Harvest Moon. The full moon closest to the equinox - the one that says: what you’ve tended all year is ready. Come and claim it.

The question isn’t whether you’re allowed.
The question is - what do you actually want?

Comment MOON below and I’ll send you details about our LUMIS Moon Circle for the Full Moon in Aries in Sunday evening.

22/09/2026

Today the light and dark are equal.
Not as a metaphor. Literally - the sun is sitting directly above the equator, and day and night are the same length. It only lasts a moment and by tomorrow the dark begins to win, and it will keep winning until December.

I find equinox more insightful than the solstice, honestly. Solstices are dramatic - peak light, peak dark. The equinox is a threshold - a before and after. The exact point where one season hands over to the next; and this one, the autumn equinox, is asking a very specific question:

What are you carrying into the darker half of the year?

Not metaphorically. Practically. What habits, what relationships, what patterns, what ways of spending your energy are you taking with you into the season that asks for more inward living?

Because autumn isn’t asking you to do less, necessarily, whilst many of us would love to be able to hibernate, it’s just not in our nature as humans to (sadly!). Instead it’s asking you to do the right things. The things that actually nourish you. The things that matter when the light is scarce.

The equinox is the last moment of balance before the scales tip. What will you be holding on yours?

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