02/11/2020
Listen. Understand.
I've spent years working and learning alongside young people with Autism.
The reality of their lives, and the lives of their families, is something most of us don't understand.
There is a lot of love, fun, freedom and joy in the lives of the kids I've worked with, and other children with ASD across the world.
But there's a lot of pain, too. A lot of confusion, a lot of hurt.
We can't understand and empathise with every perspective, every experience. However, we can always listen. We can make little adjustments in the way we understand the struggles other people face.
We can give more space, more time, more respect.
I have learnt more valuable life lessons from children with autism than I have learned from all the "neurotypical" adults who preach their own versions of success.
I will always value the time I have spent, and continue to spend with these kids. They have made me a kinder man.