08/13/2026
Dene Loss of Traditional Ways of Being
As a Dene from Denendeh in the NWT I am mostly confused by all this pretence.
I lived most of my childhood life on the land, my family occupied. I was raised to become a Dene Elder as a child until I was 9 years old.
When I was on the land with my family I experienced love, kindness, respect and care. We applied our Dene traditional ceremonies, spoke the Dene language, lived our culture and applied our customs. When on the land my family was thriving.
When we were in Hay River, my family changed. Alcohol was already prevalent and the adults in my family consumed alcohol. My mother was the only one not to drink.
As a child I experienced the impact of alcoholism not only in my family but also in the community.
As a child I experience fear, cruelty, contempt and carelessness from within my family and community when in Hay River.
I saw my drunken father beat my mother with a cast iron frying pan. I don’t know how my mother was still alive after this beating.
I saw my paternal and maternal uncles in a drunken fight. These uncles were hardened land occupants that were holistically capable. When they fought no one could stop them and they couldn’t best each other. I recall standing there watching them roll around in blood soaked snow fiercely fighting.
Yet, when we returned to the land, all the violence disappeared and the family lived in harmony. I hated going to Hay River as child knowing what will take place.
Now I realize that the alcohol was a colonial process along with education, wage economy, social services and settlements. Dene were colonized and were shamed and became fearful, cruel, contemptuous, and careless.
My father insisted we get an English Education and built us a house in Hay River when I was nine. I began attending school full time at this time.
I experienced the full fledge colonization through racism, dominance and fear, cruelty, contempt and negligence. I experienced physical abuse, sexual abuse and spiritual and emotional abuse. My being raised to become a Dene Elder stopped.
The shame and guilt I experienced, replaced my Dene traditional beliefs, values, knowledge, and skills. I abandoned my Dene traditional ceremonies, language, culture and customs. I became an English colonized Dene full of shame and guilt being a Dene.
Today. I look at my community and see colonization in full force. Very weak Dene traditional beliefs, values, knowledge and skills. A community in fear, cruelty, contempt and carelessness.
Corruption is prevalent and and where the Dene once consulted with one another in times of challenge, today the leadership simply do what they think is good for the community.
Once the Elders as leaders understood the value of service, ensured the youth developed capacity to be of service to oneself and being of service to others, their family and community.
Based on the development of Dene traditional beliefs, values, knowledge and skills the Dene ensured every child was strong in a sense of purpose, hope, belonging, and meaning. The young developed sense of humility, harmony, honour and being humane. With these values the Dene youth aspired to the land and to living a good life.
Dene believed that God is manifest in creation, therefore present in creation. They related based in divinity. Seeing the spirit of God in everything they related with everything sacredly with love, kindness, respect, and care. In this way they upheld creation and mankind.
Today as colonized Dene we live in fear, cruelty, contempt, and carelessness